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What are you waiting for?
Sometimes people come into your life and
you know right away
that they were meant to be there...
to serve some sort of purpose,
teach you a lesson
or help figure out who you are or
who you want to become.
You never know
who these people may be
but you lock eyes with them,
you know that very moment that
they will affect your life
in some profound way
and sometimes things happen
to you at the time
that may seem horrible,
painful and unfair,
but in reflection you realize
that without overcoming
those obstacles you would never realize
your potential, strength, will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance
or by means of luck.
Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness
and sheer stupidity all
occur to test limits of your soul.
Without these small tests,
life would be like a
smoothly paved, straight,
flat road to nowhere
safe and comfortable
but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect your life.
The successes and downfalls
that you experience
can create whom you are,
and the bad experiences
can be learned from.
In fact they are probably
the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you,
betrays you or breaks your heart,
forgive them because they have helped you
learn about trust and
the importance of being cautious
to whom you open your heart.
If someone loves you,
love them back unconditionally,
not only because they love you,
but also because they are teaching you to love
and open your heart and eyes to little things.
Make every day count.
Appreciate everything that you possibly can,
for you may never experience it again.
Talk to people whom you
have never talked to before,
and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love,
break free and set your sights high.
Hold you head up
because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual
and believe in yourself,
for if you don't believe in yourself,
no one else will believe in you.
Create your own life and
then go out and live it.
~~The Piano Lady
First published in a column Oct. 18, 2000 by Dale Earnhardt Jr.
I know a man who's hands are so callused that gloves aren't necessary.
Once while cutting down a tree, he cut the back of his hand down to the bone with a chainsaw. He didn't even stop to look until the job was done.
I've seen him get thrown from a tractor, the tractor as big as a small home, was flipped by the trunk of a stubborn oak tree. His first thought was not fear, but how quickly he could the tractor back on it's tracks to complete the task.
He has suffered broken bones and never had one complaint, not to anyone, not even to himself. This man could lead the world's finest army. He has wisdom that knows no bounds. No fire could burn his character, no stone could break it. He maintains a private existence. One that shelters his most coveted thoughts from the world.
His upbringing was no controlled creation. His hard working family was like many of that era. He gained his knowledge in hard dirt and second hand tools, from his toys as a child to the trucks he drove in his 20s. From that natural unbringing, he has a natural sense of good and bad. He sees it before it sees him, in people, in anything imaginable. Where did he learn this? How does he know so many things?
I've seen this man create many things. With no blueprints, he's carved and produced wonders upon wonders. His resume shows he has created major companies. He has hammered out deal upon deal always being fair as God would have it. He has taken land thick shrub and deep valleys and molded them into frontier fit for heaven. He has built homes that kings couldn't fathom.
Solving problems is as easy as breathing for him. They are thrown at him like the morning paper. People surround him daily, wanting solutions. He hands them out with pride and passion. Each solution is a battle won. He calculates his every action, demanding the same from everyone else. He is honest in letting you know your end in the bargain.
His friendship is the greatest gift of all you could ever obtain. Out of all his attributes, it is the most impressive. He trusts only a few with this gift. If you ever break that trust..it is over. He accepts few apologies. Many have crossed him and they leave with only regret for their actions. In every result, he stands as an example of what hard work and dedication will achieve. Even his enemies know this.
I have had the pleasure of joining him on the battlefield. I have experienced his intimidating wrath, that may sound strong, but I know what I'm talking about. He roams like a lion, king of his jungle. His jungle is his and his alone.
Every step he takes has purpose. Every walk with reason.
He praises God, loves his family, enjoys his friends. I wonder what his future holds. He has so much to be proud of. To this point, he's only barely satisfied. His eyes see so much more then my imagination could produce. He is Dale Earnhardt.
Dad, the world's finest army awaits.
