My husband and I have 2 children we adopted that are 9 and 10. have been together for 14 yrs.. married 10and 1/2 yrs. My husband met a girl on line.. She is married and has 2 older children. He has been talking to her for 5 months now... He has never met her in person just talked on phone and on line to her.. They are ready to leave perspective partners and move in together... He has her as his wife and me by my name.. They are already "Engaged".. even before either have a Divorce.. lol So my ? is this do you think he is going thru mid life chrises or just being a Idiot?