Lil Miss Ali's blog: "Loving you. "

My friend and I had a debate Wednesday night while getting drunk. Yes, very classy I know. Were two single girls and sometimes just tired of the dating world so we bitch to each other while drinking those horrible memories away! LoL no offense men. 

Anyway. She went on a date Tuesday night and the guy had a good stable job, not hot, but cute, he has his own place. His only down fall would be he is going through a divorce. My friend tried, but she said theres just no spark. Now, she has said this about prior guys. One, she said she would never, but ended up dating and falling head over heels. He broke up with her, but shes still into him. So it can happen! 

Then theres guys that are fun, hot, excting... but a lot of time, they have a shitty job and are very irresponsible or if that doesnt apply they end up being jerks, fun, but jerks. 

So, I guess our debate was, giving the "nice guy" a chance is really in everyones best interest, but that doesnt mean youll eventually fall in love and they you may end up hurting the guy. Whats better? Not even giving it a chance or trying and moving on down the road later when you still arent feelng anything? 

I dunno!!! 

An absolute must read:

A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?”

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!

It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up and silent with chests rising and falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when you’re laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly yourself. Love yourself in every moment.