We've all heard the saying none can love you unless you first love yourself... So how exactly would one go about doing this? By being confident, outgoing or spoiling yourself? Well all these things might make someone feel good, but not really love oneself... Ok so I was thinking that maybe we are all asking the wrong thing here, what we should be asking is do we NEED to love ourselves? I think the answer here is no we don't. As long as we feel happy how we are we will in turn be loved.