Tonya's blog: "Love and Respecting Yourself!"

Poem!!! To all the single mothers out there!!! I found this poem in my local newspaper. A grieving wife wrote this in memory of her restly departed husband and soul mate!!! I hope this touches someone out there. It takes a rare breed of men to open their hearts and commit their life to a family who has been broken and only wants to loved. I bless u all who have stepped up and saw no flaws and loved anyways. Giving them the knowledge of what family should mean; paving the way for their own future family. Thank you!! As eternal as the tide that breaks the shores, There's been no greater commitment than mine and yours. It started the day, we entered your world, Three little boys and a lonely young girl. It seemed as the world had cast us aside, Until that day i became ur bride. I asked not of you, neither fortune or fame, But that we have your love, as well as your name. To give of yourself, to three little boys, who had nothing to offer, but a handful of toys. Wide eyed and scared, they entered your world, and the way you loved them, won the heart of this girl. Their feeling for you, today is quite clear, For always int their hearts, your memory holds dear. My commitment to you, for the rest of our life: Was to walk side by side, with pride as your wife! God Bless!!

COUNT EVERY " F" in the following text: (DON'T CHEAT BY SCROLLING DOWN) FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI FIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS... (See below) How Many? WRONG, THERE ARE 6 -- no joke. READ IT AGAIN ! Really, go Back and Try to find the 6 F's before you scroll down. The reasoning behind is further down. The brain cannot process "OF". Anyone who counts all 6 "F's" on the first go is a genius. Three is normal, four is quite rare.

Two women friends had gone out for a Girls Night Out, and had been decidedly over-enthusiastic on the cocktails. Incredibly drunk and walking home they suddenly realized they both needed to pee. They were very near a graveyard and one of them suggested they do their business behind a headstone or something. The first woman had nothing to wipe with so she took off her panties, used them and threw them away. Her friend however was wearing an expensive underwear set and didn't want to ruin hers, but was lucky enough to salvage a large ribbon from a wreath that was on a grave and proceeded to wipe herself with it. After finishing, they made their way home. The next day the first woman's husband phones the other husband and said, "These damn girls nights out have got to stop. My wife came home last night without her panties." "That's nothing," said the other. "Mine came back with a sympathy card stuck between the cheeks of her butt that said, 'From all of us at the Fire Station, Well never forget you!'

These are a few quotes or writings that i have came across over the years that have touched my life in some sort of way!! Maybe they will u too!! Love is the only immortal thing about us and without love we have nothing! Marylin Monroe One of the greatest experiences in life is to love and to be loved. If your wishing upon a star and it never seems to come true, then take time and think! "Are u wishing for the right wish?" No pessimist ever dicovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit. Helen Keller It is better to have loved and loss then to have never loved at all! Everything in life that we really accept must undergo change. The answers will come but only after you know which ones are worth asking. Perhaps if one really knew when one was happy, one would know the things that were necessary for one's life. Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. my business is not to remake myself, but make the absolute best of what God made. Robert Browning What u give to the world will be returned to u -maybe not all at once or in the ways you might expect but the best will come back to u. For where our treasure is there will your heart be also. Matthew 6:21 Living is a form of not being sure, not knowing what is next or how.....We maybe wrong but we take leap after leap into the dark. where there is great love there are always miracles. Blessed is he that has not seen, and has believed!! Just trust yourself, then u will know how to live. There are years that ask questions and years that answers. For it is is in loving, as well as in being loved, that we become most truly ourselves. No matter what we do, say, accomplish, or become, it is our capacity to love that ultimately defines us. In the end, nothing we do or say in this lifetime will matter as much as the ways we have loved one another. Daphne Rose Kingma

Well it is simple, the things that a person could find out about me. I like to keep everything simple but rewarding. I had that drama kind of life and honestly if it means being bored for the rest of my life, I am so up for it!! There is several years here, that honestly, is what gave me my lst gray hair. That was a devastating moment in my life, lol!! I really don't know what is the absolute right things to do in life, but I sure can tell u about all the wrong decisions I have made in my life. Would i trade those moments for good ones,or would I wish I could turn back time, no I wouldn't. Those wrong decisions, bad mistakes, loss, and heartache I had to go through as an individual in this world, gave me the opportunity to learn and grow in to a person that my family, and myself can be proud of. I saw in my life what it meant to really give to someone, when I was the one in need, when I was too broken to stand on my own. People who I didn't even know too well was there to help me mourn my sadness, bring my son into this world, and to help me see the real person I always was but was to afraid to see. Not to say I wasn't always a giving and loving person, I was too much of a pleaser and hated to be a disappointment and burden to others whom I loved in my life. Because I couldn't humble myself and take care of myself too, I lost only more of myself and disappointed the ones that meant the most. Why, because I was afraid of being alone and heartbroken. I couldn't see that I couldn't love someone for the both of us. It wasn't enough to keep him safe and happy, if I wasn't too. In the end, I was alone. But in the loneliness I found my self, hope, discovered faith, and alittle peace that brought me the love and happiness in my life that I have today. Please people don't sell ur self short or settle for less than u deserve. We have to take a chance in life to get what it is we are really meant to have. It's unlimited to what we can have in and for ourselves if we try. It is my biggest fear in my life to take a risk but I then remember, I will only be empty and lonely without it. Love yourself and respect yourself that is reward in itself!!! What u do and where u take ur life, good or bad, is your control, it is ur birth right. If u let someone else take the wheel, u only have urself to blame. I learned, and it was a hard lesson, but I'll be damn if anyone ever takes my wheel again. I am the sole driver of my life. And I am full speed ahead. But what I express here today are only facts the way I know it. You know what they say " Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. God Bless!!!