Letting go of someone you love is one of the hardest things you'll even have to do. The more alone time you spend, the more thinking you get to do, the more realization of truth you encounter.
I think that once you balance out the reasons why you want to hold on and the reasons you have to let go, you will come to an understanding as to what you're really dealing with and see the true colors of the cards you are holding.
Life brings people into your life for a reason and when its time for them to leave its because the lesson has been left and its up to you to see it, feel it, and live on what you've learned.
I've recently decided to let someone go from my life. Although, its with a heavy heart that I make this decision, I decided it was for my own good and for the best for the both of us.
We just dont see eye to eye, we dont think close to the same, we dont believe in the same rules, and we're in different levels overall. Sometimes being on different levels alone causes a tiny bit of resentment, feelings of inferiority, and that's not what things should be about, but, as unfortunate as it is, in my eyes, it has come to that. Not by my doing, but by how the other person feels, and I'm sorry they feel that way. Sometimes its hard to overlook past the obvious.
My life has always been good, rewarding and plentiful but a struggle nontheless. I am where I am in life; myself and my family, cause I am strong and overcame a lot of things and I cant let anything hold me back or on stand-still.
I can't stop moving forward because someone is stuck in the past. In all my realization, here is what I've discovered. You can't go back to the past, the past is written in your history for a reason, you walked away for a reason. Thinking you can revisit to apply the theory of "If I knew then what I know now, it'd be different". Well, it doesn't always hold true, if someone is stuck somewhere in the path of life and doesn't necessarily have what you need to pick up the pieces of yesterday and move on to tomorrow, then you must keep walking and keep searching for whatever it is you're missing.
