Not really sure where to start but this is gonna be a long message with different parts so if ya wanna stick around to read it all fine if not fine.
Ill start out with this... as most of ya know im a spanker and this club is the best bombin family on fubar! The month of April was a very long month for all members and leaders, and alot of people got stressed out over it. The leaders were workin on something to make things easier for us and for the members. I had something typed up and sent it to the leaders. Now the very first thing the message had said was.... ***** OK guys heres what im gonna post in the spankers blog as long as everyone is ok with it. ****
"as long as everyone is ok with it" Now to me this means if ur unhappy or disagree with something that was said to say something about it so we can work it out so EVERYONE is happy. Instead of this happenin 2 leaders got pissed, posted something and quit. I received a short message from someone and something that was said in this message really pissed me off to no end. The part that pissed me off said..... **while everyone else had their little lives to live** We ALL have a life outside of fubar, hell outside of the internet period. I love my family and friends BUT there is NOTHIN that is more important then my husband and kids. I dont care what kind of contest is goin on, who is tryin to level, or anything else online, I WILL NEVER put my personal life on hold just to get online to do something. I love my spanker family and their isnt anything I wouldnt do for them BUT NEVER WILL I PUT MY PERSONAL LIFE ON HOLD FOR ANYTHING ONLINE. I get online when I have free time, but when my husband is home or when my kids are home I shut the computer off and do my duties as a mother and wife. When I have "free time" I get online and devote all of it to my spanker family.
I have lost one of my best friends cause of internet shit. She was more then a best friend, I considered her family. We hung out and done things together, She watched my kids for me one nite so hubby and I could have some "alone time". Anyone with kids knows how hard it is to find someone you trust to watch ur children let alone let them stay all nite. Im heart broke that our friendship has ended all over something with the internet, with the spankers club. Personaly Ive NEVER said anything bad about her or done anything wrong and I never will. I still love her like a sister and even though our friendship is over she will always have a place in my heart.
Alot of us have made some great friends on here, some are just internet friendships I guess ya could say but some will last way beyond fubar or any other site. I will be the first to say im addicted to fubar, hell I would be lost w/out the net period. I take alot of things on here serious as im sure theres alot of us that do BUT one thing is for certain and that is my family will ALWAYS come first. I love my family and friends but no matter what is goin on online, if its bombin, or levelin, or makin a bully or anything the only time Im online is when I have "free time". I will NEVER put my personal life on hold for ANYTHING ONLINE. No matter what it is!! It doesnt mean I love you guys any less it just means my husband and kids ALWAYS come first. My house work, or anything I have to do at home or something will ALWAYS COME FIRST. When my husband and kids arent home Im online doin something but when they are home or if something needs to be done here I will do it before I devote any time online. Anyone that puts their personal life on hold for ANYTHING THATS GOIN ON no matter what it might be well im sorry thats just a stupid thing to do. There isnt anything I wouldnt do for my family an friends but dont expect me to put my personal life on hold to do something or to run something on here. We get online when we have time you should NEVER EVER place ur personal life on hold for ANYTHING online. If me sayin this makes me a bitch then I guess im proud to be one. If this has pissed ya off then feel free to remove me from ur friends list. I dont sugarcoat shit, I dont suck up to people, and I dont try to be someone im not. This is how I am and this is how I will act online as well. Im not here to be the best, im not here to rank high in points, im here to make new friends, im here when I have the free time to be here. I would say im sorry if ive pissed anyone off with this blog, BUT this is how I feel and I cant be sorry for that.
Lots of licks and spanks to my friends! xoxo-cotton
