ok..im going to say this...just because you arent "hot" doesnt mean that you should be shy and meek....i know plenty of guys that are shy because they have a low self image...be happy with who you are and just relax and be yourself...thats the most attractive part of someone...when they are relaxed and show who they really are....you dont need a bunch of lewd comments to make you feel good about yourself....so what if you're a bit overweight...so what if one eye squints....i look at a person's personality before anything else....if im attracted to their personality then they in turn looks wise become attractive....