Why can't people be upfront? If they're not interested just say so! I get that no one wants to hurt other people's feelings but it hurts a lot more when you're not given an answer....or even some closure! This whole concept of "let's play it by ear" is bullshit. If that person sincerely wants to be with you they will never say that. Either you're available or not available. What I can't stand...especially on profiles Don't play with another person's heart and act interested where the expectation level increases up a notch only to be crushed...not let down slowly...but crushed in an instant when communication is cut off and there are no concluding and definitive answers. People just don't want to read between the lines even though they can but we just don't want to assume because we have no idea what's going on on the other person's end? If you're not interested.....just say it! Don't beat around the bush! WTF?!