Irresistibly Charming's blog: "Just a thought........."

im sorry yall but for yall who commented on my blogs im not being able to see any of yalls comments so i promise you im not ignoring your reply if any i just dont know what you have posted i dont know whats wrong. i wish i did cause i am interested in what you said maybe you'll send me a messege too about it. i would really appreciate it, take care

This breed is such a beautiful breed ,so many dogs fall into the wrong hands of irresponsible owners. and the dogs pay for it. people label them as aggressive and dangerous, natural born killers. i think this is one of the most intelligent breeds in the dog world. they are trying to ban them across the world. do these dogs not deserve to live out the live they were born into. why should they die because owners make stupid and selfish choices? i think this breed and others are smarter then we give them credit for, i think they are so smart and so aware that they see their breed being killed off for no reason and the only thing they know to do is fight back for their lives and this is getting them a label of being dangerous and aggresive. when one does become aggressive why dont we try and retrain them and atleast give them a chance to live instead of just killing them? if i were their breed i would be afraid too. so many people think just because pitbulls are strong and intelligent that they dont feel pain. well............ they do. they feel pain just like any living creature on this earth. i often hear from people why would you like this breed, why would you own this breed, why do you want a killer? if you are educated on how to own and train a pitbull.and you know how to be a leader of the pack you should have no problem, like with any dog, if you tend to seem weak,any animal will sense that and try to take advantage of that.its not just pits. its any animal. i only can say this ............until...........one has owned a pitbull they really cannot judge them, this breed has more love and devotion them any other breed.they only want to please their master, and they are always willing to smother you with kisses. so smothering it takes your breath away. so please dont judge this breed until you have owned one. there is a reason these and any other animal turn. maybe they dont feel good.or maybe their not getting enough attention and are feeling neglected . maybe they arent getting enough exercise and all that energy is built up. there are several reasons, until you are ready to be a responsible owner and are strong and energized and understanding enough for a breed that carries the same traits, you do not need one. and please dont fight these dogs! that is abusive and just plain cruel and inhumane, how would you feel if you were starved and then put in a ring to fight for your life rather you wanted to or not and being strong enough to.you would be scared too. imagine not knowing what affection is not knowing what love hugs and kisses are. not knowing what it feels like to run (because you're always chained up)and be the animal you are "a free spirit"imagine having to eat things like pepper and gun powder and wonder why it makes you act the way you do. these animals go thru alot when they fall into the wrong hands, so see it is not their fault . it is the owners, THEY ONLY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TAUGHT!! PLEASE JUST GIVE THEM A CHANCE AND PLEASE STOP JUDGING THEM UNTIL YOU'VE OWNED ONE. AND IF YOU WONT BE GOOD TO THEM OR ANY OTHER ANIMAL THEN PLEASE JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE AND DONT LET THEM FALL INTO YOUR HANDS. FOR THOSE OF YOU .........who are animal lovers and pitbull lovers thank you for loving them and showing them the love and affection and the devotion they deserve.

FRIENDSHIPS HAVE NO COLOR AND FRIENDSHIPS ARE NOT ONE WAY HEY YALL, How yall doing? i'm doing fine, just wondering what goes on in some of yalls heads is all. especially towards friendships. Doesn't anyone treasure "REAL" friendship anymore? i'm being for real right now please don't shake your head and said "yea whatever". "REAL" Friendships are RARE!!! those are the ones that should treasured and handled with T.L.C. never take advantage of a real friend. in the end it doesnt hurt anyone but yourself because god was blessing you with one and you didn't appreciate it so he took them away. my question is well.......... i have only a few chosen close friends, i keep the ones who are worth keeping. ones who are REAL. this is for the ones who are messenging me in chats on messenger and wherever else. if you want to talk to me ? i will listen . i won't ever turn anyone down in need, some people really do need a someone to talk to.but for those of you who just want to hook up and not get to know anyone please go away, because that is not what i am here for. and my question is for those of you who do act that way. and then say yes i'm looking for true friendship "make up my mind" lol . if you were looking for true friendships, now i'm talking about friendships that will be here thru thick and thin." UNCONDITIONALLY". well, my advice to you is learn to get to know someone ok? how can one get to know you if you don't try too. FRIENDSHIP A REAL ONE IS NOT A ONE WAY ROAD!!. and for those of you who don't get what i'm saying to you, you can't expect one to make all the effort. it doesn't work that way.and if you think it does well................ you will always have a hard time making friendships and keeping one that is real. and i want to know something? why does friendship have to have color seperation? in my world their is no color, WE ALL BLEED THE SAME ( DO WE NOT ?) that is ignorant. it really is and it is sad? and why wouldn't we want to know someone who is disabled? aren't they people too? why do some of yall feel that way? you are so missing out on beautiful people.they have feelings too. just as you do. yes thats right just as you do you know who you are. i'll give you AN EXAMPLE: i have a friend that i have been friends with for 20 yrs plus we have been thru so much it doesn't matter where we are where we go,we stay tight,we are each others safe zone. i have a friend of mine i met about 3 yrs ago in jacksonville he is my confidant also i wouldn't trade him for the world.YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE , our friendship will make it to 20 years plus and then some. i also have met one on here he lives in michigan. Don't worry i won't meantion your name wouldn't want anyone to know your a good guy or nothing sweetie lol but he is real too, he too is someone i can share with and it comes back from him. now that is REAL FRIENDSHIP!!! eternall friendship i call it, someone whom you trust your life with and they trust theirs with you. how many of you can say you truely have friends like that i'm sure you do, but what i'm getting at is for those of you that IM me and want to be friends as you say, well. here's the secret with me ok? I ONLY KEEP THE REAL ONES. i keep the ones who make an effort too. the ones who take the time to get to know me as a person and allow me to do the same with them if i am the one who is trying and you arent eventually i will delete you because ,life is too short to waste on one who doesn't make time, if i waste all my time on someone who is playing games that takes away my time i could be putting into ones who appreciate. all i'm saying is don't say you need real friends if you don't want to make the effort. you're only hurting yourself.everyone needs good friends. you will never be alone when you have real friends. THINK ABOUT IT. yall take care and god bless

TO ALL MY SISTA'S SINGLE, MARRIED, OR OTHERWISE 1- Never apologize for pursing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want YOU MATTER TOO! 2- Never apologize for using proper Engish. Keeping it real doesn't mean speaking Ebonics. 3- Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that JUST DOESN'T WORK OUT! its not a one way street. 4- Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want you to keep you at THEIR level.and it IS ok to move ahead in life. 5-Never apologize for crying. it's not healthy to keep stuff bottled up inside anyways. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself gurl. 6- Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you AS YOU ARE! 7- Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the lastest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap. 8- Don't apologize for being a single mom. BABIES ARE A BLESSING! some can't even conceive. 9- Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. YOU MATTER TOO> Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation. 10- Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves. 11- NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR LEAVING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. YOUR SAFETY SHOULD BE A PRIORITY!!!!!!!!!!! 12- Never apologize for saying NO! 13-Never apologize for asking for what you want in bed. If you don't then who will? 14-Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids. You bought them it so it's yours. 15-Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a reason she's been your girl from day one. 16- Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one dessert. 17- Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr Right across the color line doesn't mean you don't love your brothas. 18- NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR DEMANDING RESPECT! YOU ARE ALWAYS TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN!! 19- Never apologize for not knowing how to cook.Letting your food burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out. ( Right Girl!) 20- Never apologize for your tastes in clothes. It's your style. 21- Never apologize for changing your mind. It is your preogative. 22- Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even if others don't agree. You have to live with the consequences not them. 23- Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard and deserve to get paid. 24- NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR BEING YOU! " KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD" ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE'S ALWAYS GOT YOUR BACK!!

THE WORLD ACHES FOR THE LESS FORTUNATE, DOES IT NOT? FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND AND CARE YOU KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT NOW DON'T YOU? AND FOR THOSE WHO HAVE IT ALL AND DON'T CARE, OR WHO DON'T SEEM TO THINK THEY NEED TO HELP, HERE IS A WAKE UP CALL FOR YOU MY DEAR FRIENDS , I HOPE YOU APPRECIATE ALL YOU HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH CAUSE HE DID NOT HAVE TO BLESS YOU WITH ALL THAT YOU HAVE AND CAN TAKE IT AWAY AS FAST HE GAVE IT TO YOU. ALOT CHOOSE TO LIVE A HARD LIVE, BUT OTHERS ARE JUST DOWN ON THEIR LUCK,THEY NEED US,IN ANY WAY POSSIBLE. WITHOUT US THERE IS NO HOPE, I DO NOT BELIEVE THERE IS ANYONE WHO IS BETTER THEN ANYONE. AND IF YOU FEEL DIFFERENT WELL, LIKE I SAID I HOPE YOU APPRECIATE CAUSE YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW A SITUATION UNLESS YOU WALK IN IT. HOW MANY TIMES A DAY DO YOU REACH OUT TO SOMEONE LESS FORTUNATE THEN YOU? HOW MANY TIMES A DAY DO YOU GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO MAKE ONE SMILE ? THEY SAY WE ALL HAVE 25,000 ANGELS AROUND US. INTERESTING THOUGHT HUH? JUST SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT ONE DAY YOU TOO MIGHT NEED A HELPING HAND , I JUST HOPE YOU HAVE EARNED THE RIGHT TO BE LIFTED WHEN YOU NEED IT. IF ALL OF US WOULD PRACTICE "PAY IT FORWARD" THIS WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER WORLD.WHAT DO YOU THINK