What's love got to do with it? And I really mean that. If a man is whippin' your ass on a regular, leave him, call the police, do-it-yourself Home Castration Kit, etc. I am not voicing disdain at the individuals who do not leave abusers immediatly, but common sense tells us that if this person is already proven that they will not stop abusing, then there is really nothing to be done, but a segregation of the two parties. Sticking to the filed charges after he is hauled away would help too.