So got a call this morning at 1am and then another at almost 2 - me being asleep I didn't answer but it seems my ex decided to get shitfaced and shoot off his gun at the apartment he is living at. His landlord was calling me because he told them to make sure I was notified - yea like I want a call about that at 1am. Anyway I finally got over there and managed to get the dog and most of his crap out - landlord kicked him out and judging from the charges he won't be back for a long while. I'm pissed because instead of a nice normal working day I had to spend it getting his shit - which is technially my old stuff I gave to him just to get him to leave - and adding a dog into the house on top of dealing with his mom. Just for kicks I went through his phone - why because I pay for it - and found messages to and from chicks about how they were the love of his life and he was going to sober up etc - at least 4 via text. Do I feel guilty for looking no. Do I feel guilty for sending a mass text to everyone in his address book about his adventure last night - heck no. Does that make me a bad person - I really hope not. Anyway I called the detention center today to get an update and he currently as 2 charges - possession of an illegal firearm and discharging said illegal firearm while intoxicated. Yea GA don't play nice on those charges and everywhere I have read he is looking at at least 5 years. Thinking about selling all his crap except for a few important items and using the money to buy clothes and diapers for our son. Just so mad at him for being such a jerk (I'm being nice) Maybe the drama will decrease now - cross your fingers for me