My instructions for life......... Take into account that great love and great achievements take great risks. When you lose, Don't lose the lesson... Follow the 3 R's... RESPECT for self, RESPECT for others and RESPONSIBILITY for all your actions!!! Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck .... Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly ;) Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship. When you realize you have made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.... Spend sometime alone everyday. Open your arms to change but don't let go of your values..... Live a good, honorable life. Then when you are older and look back, you'll be able to enjoy it a 2nd time. In disagreements with loved ones, ONLY deal with the current situation.DON'T bring up the past Be gentle with the earth Once a year go someplace you have never been Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other....Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it