This was an issue with me and my girlfriend...she doesn't think its right that I continue on with my bf which is my baby's father...I've been with him longer than her, but now she is showin her jealous side and I can not handle it...I think after sleepin on it...We r finished...I don't believe in monogamy..it shoud have been made a four letter word...So im goin to her house before work and break it off..I think one can love another deeply and yet still lust towards others...after all its said and done I think I'll be happier...LOL...now I can lust after new people..ANY TAKERS? lol