FreakyAZtomboyIn Loving Memory of My Red...'s blog: "IN LOVING MEMORY OF BRANDON SPETTIGUE AKA REDHOT96COBRA MAR 22, 1986- SEPT 12, 2008"

My Thoughts go out to you, my Immortal Beloved. I can live only wholly with you or not at all. Be calm my life, my all, only by calm consideration of our existance can we achieve our purpose to live together. Oh, continue to love me, never misjudge the most faithful heart of your beloved. Ever Thine Ever Mine Ever Ours This was Ludwig Von Beethoven's love letter to his Immortal Beloved. I write it to my Immortal Beloved RIP Redhot96 cobra aka Brandon Spettigue 3/22/86- 9/12/08 Do not Stand at my grave and weep. I am not there I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there, I did not die.

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE MEAN OR HATEFUL SO KISS SLOWLY LAUGH INSANILY LOVE TRULY AND FORGIVE QUICKLY People come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there. To serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be, nor will you know that you are to learn something until AFTER it has happened. But when you lock eyes with them you know at that very moment they will affect your life in a profound way and sometimes things happen to you that may seem painful and unfair at first but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power, or heart. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck...EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, lost moments of happiness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul without these tests your life is a straight flat road to no where. Learn a lesson in life each day you live. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything you can!! Live life to the fullest as you may not be around tomorrow!!! Live dangerous once in a while taking chances and keeping it exciting! LIVE, LAUGH AND LOVE !!!!!