When a man walks into his room, he brings his whole life with him. He had million reasons for being ANYWHERE. Just ask him.
If you listen, he will tell you how he got there, how he forgot where he was going and then he woke up.
If you listen, he'll tell you about the time he thought he was an angel or dreamt of being perfect. And then he smiled with wisdom, content that he'd realized the world isn't perfect.
We're flawed because WE WANT SO MUCH MORE.
We're ruined, because we get these things and wish WHAT WE HAD.