well last week i found that my man was talking to anothewr girl he told this girl he would meet her. the bad part is he said he would meet her 1 day after we had been together for 13 years. when i read this i was so heart broken. the bad part was the whole time it was me . but the thought of him wanting to meet her hurt me so bad.we talked about this and i let him know how bad he hurt me.but the hurt is still there.I love him with all my heart and want to grow old with this man.Why do ppl hurt the ones they love?