I dunno
So yeah today a friend, well I can't say friend, we talk from time to time but hardly hang out much, okay maybe an associate that's in the transitional phase has been asking me for a movie she wanted to borrow so she texts me today (Sunday) asking for it so I text her back and say when does she want it. She explains to me that she's over her aunt's house and that I could drop it off there, and hang out there since I was off today. I'm kind of like to myself hmmm..."hang out at your aunt's house???".
Earlier that week she explained to me that since her aunt died they have a gathering every Sunday. So I text her back like, "I bet there is a ton of people down there huh?" So then she calls me and says,"No there isn't alot of people down here, it's just me, my sister, my other sister and her boyfriend her other sister, her aunt, her dad and her mom. I'm like wow sounds like a good bit of people to me, I was like yeah...I think I'll pass, she was like, "Why are you scared, cause it sounds like you are" and to be honest I was. I mean I'm showing up at a family get-together, which always makes me uncomfortable, not to mention I didn't want questions raised if I was seeing her or not which I'm not and I've never met any of these people and you want "throw me to the wolves" in a sense.
So she kept pushing the issue so I said I have someone on the other line and ended that conversation (yeah I know sucky way to get off the phone)
So am I wrong for feeling the way I did about the situation, or was it remotely justifiable. I do feel kind of guilty so I dunno