well i am a single /widow who is in a relationship right now ,(never know how long it will last though).i have 2 wonderful boys by birth one just hit 21 ,and he is in the navy on an aircraft carrier, very proud of him he is a fine young man .my youngest is 17 and still in high school and an avid video gamer ,right now he's working on his drivers licence. i also have 2 surragate children, one is a girl who i helped to raise since she was 6 yrs old she is beautiful lady who is getting married in april of 08 .her mom is my best friend . the last one is my boyfriend's son who is 19 and also in the navy studying to be a submariene specialist. and i am very proud of him as well .and i love them all the same . my boyfriend is a wonderful man who just happened to be one of my ex boyfriends from when i was a teenager (long time ago ). i am a laid back kind of person ,i don't let to much bs get to me as there are way to many things overrated .its not that i don't care about people ,places and things .i do but im not gonna bug out on stuff that i cant do anything about .i am in a word bitch . beautiful,intelligent, talented ,creative ,horny lady .