DId you ever wonder why holidays are such a big deal????? I mean I would feel like it is more from the heart if something was done unexpectedly. When you only do something cause you have to, it doesnt feel that special to me. If you were dating me would you be mad if I told you to forget all holidays and that you are only allowed to done something special on none holidays?????? I mean I want things done because you want to, not because you have to..... What do you think????