For a long time I let a man rule and ruin my life but for the new year I have promised myself to make me and my kiddos happy. I was in a physically and emotional abusive relationship for 11 years and I finally got out of it. My kiddos have seen shit they never should have seen and everyday I am trying to make it up to them. What I am trying to say is you just never know what is gonna happen in this world and you need to make the best of it and learn from your mistakes. Dont depend on anybody to make or break your life. Don't depend on anybody to make you happy (except maybe your kids ). If you are in a violent relationship and need to talk to somebody who won't put you down or tell you that you are stupid then hit me up and we can talk as long as you need to. Happiness in life is the most important thing there is.