Why?
Why...do people judge someone? What is the purpose of judging someone, you don't even know? How can a person get to know another person if they judge that person before they get to know them? YES, I am a plus sized woman...I have more of me to love, and yet i'm looked down upon because i'm not a skinny, boney looking, sickly thin person, who thinks it's a sin to eat food. I'm a southern Belle through and through, I talk southern (because i am), I even cook southern, (because it tastes Good), I may have extra to love, so what? Why is that so bad? Why is it so difficult for a guy to see me on the inside and want to get to know me? Society had viewed us as obsese, overweight, and just plain fat...But why is it society's problem to tell us what we already know? Did we forget we got more of us to love? Are we walking around saying, "OMG...Look how thin i look, i could be Barbie, i look so thin..." Heck i know i'm big, doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
And another thing...just because I have more of me to love, DOES NOT mean i'm Stupid in any way shape or form. I may not be as intelligent as Albert Einstein, Bill Gates or some famous person to be named later on in life, but i'm very intelligent and so are my friends who have more of them to love too. So before, you go off thinking we're "forgetful" or "unintelligent" get to know us and you could find out we're not so bad after all