Delicious Melishush's blog: "General Venting........(some of this is gonna be funny, y'all! lol)"

at the bottom of my last blog (boyfriends), i plainly stated....."MOST MEN". i believe i also said "NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT". now, is there some reason why no one saw that except for Nebulosis? i know she saw it because she commented on the part where i said only the guys that are attracted to me are like that. i'm sorry....there was one other person who saw that part but, at the moment, his name escapes me. anyway....i just thought i would clear that up before anyone else got their dander up over what i said. i might have been wrong about who was going to start the family uprising but, damn it, i was right about being accused of male bashing, wasn't i? y'all have a nice day and always remember....... I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST MEN. I THINK EVERY WOMAN SHOULD OWN ONE! :)

in view of last night's events, i'm posting one more blog about this whole "family" thing. it seems i was right about the uprising. what i didn't see coming was that it wasn't even caused by the "family" members...it was the non-family members. it's sad when things like this happen no matter what "side" you take. me..well, like i said befor, i have family members on my list, i know some of the others who are in the family but not on my list and and they are sweethearts. i know some that aren't sweethearts too but that's a longer story than i care to type! lol the point being that there's always gonna be a group that no one likes. there's always gonna be a group that makes people feel left out or uncomfortable...that's life. i found some of the postings from both sides offensive, some funny and some (like last night) were just out-of-this-world crazy. i'm riding the fence on this one guys...i can see both sides here and i've pretty much tried to stay neutral. to sonny i would say not to let anyone on the net dictate what he does or who he has on his list. it's your life and your page...do what you want. to the non-family members i would say let it go. there has to be more important things in life than trying to dissolve an internet group. yes, it could be looked at as if i were also one that was against the family because of some statements that i made in an earlier blog...BUT...i was only voicing an obsevation that many others had voiced to me already and i will reitterate another of my previous statements now......lc is supposed to be everyone's site. everyone is supposed to be family here..not just a select few. this statement can be read in two ways. my interpretation of it is that if you feel like family, you're family. if you don't have any friends that are close enough to be rated as family, that's pretty much your own fault. you don't have to join a group or start a group to be family and i don't think that sonny felt that you had to be listed as "family" before you were considered to be. it was really just one of those things that a lot of people didn't like the sound of. i'll be the first to admit that sometimes it bothered me but, for the most part, it was of no major concern until i saw some of what was being posted last night. it had unfolded as i said it would...it just wasn't the people i thought it would be that made it happen. mark it down ladies and gents because you may never hear me say this again but....i was wrong!(sorta)

Ok....so why is it that other people are entitled to their opinions but i'm not? I don't mind telling you that my last blog got me into some hot water with one of my "good friends". This i couldn't understand. Not only because it was only over a reposted bulletin that i didn't even write (i only reposted), but also because he agreed with my last blog and then turned on me over it. Well, i'm almost sorry....but not quite!This person that my repost was about wasn't even the topic of my blog..only the general idea of what she was doing and complaining about. So, for this, i get crucified. WTF????? So i guess it's true that if you don't show everything God blessed you with or you don't do drugs, you're in the minority huh? Well, that's just fucking fine with me..i really don't give a damn. What i DO give a damn about is when people come to me, ask me to add them and then act like they really like me until something better comes along. Then, they act like they never understood me at all...fuck that! Life is too short and i have too many friends to let only one of them tear me down. I have an opinion and, like it or not, it DOES count for something. Maybe y'all would rather have me acting less than virtuous and then whining about it when everyone starts treating me like a hooker. You know what...i don't give a damn anymore. All i have to say is if you're gonna turn your back on me just because i voice my opinion without attacking anyone in particular, then you can kiss my southern ass!!!!

WHY IS EVERYONE BITCHING AND MOANING ABOUT ALL THE LEWD COMMENTS BEING MADE TO ALL THESE WOMEN ON HERE? IS THERE SOME REASON WHY THESE WOMEN THINK THAT THERE'S A "SAFE" INTERNET SITE? A SITE WHERE THEY WON'T BE BOTHERED, HARRASSED OR EVEN STALKED BY SOME PERVERTED MAN THAT WASN'T BREASTFED ENOUGH AS A BABY? SOMETHING TELLS ME THAT THERE ARE TOO MANY WOMEN LIVING "OVER THE RAINBOW". IF YOU POST HALF NAKED (OR IN SOME CASES TOTALLY NAKED) PICS ON THE INTERNET, YOU SHOULD EXPECT A NASTY RESPONSE FROM SOME OF THE MEN. ACTUALLY, YOU SHOULD EXPECT A NASTY RESPONSE FROM SOME OF THE WOMEN TOO. AS A WOMAN WHO REFUSES TO POST ANYTHING ALONG THE LINES OF NUDITY, I CAN TELL YOU, IT CUTS DOWN ON THE MEAN AND DISGUSTING COMMENTS YOU GET FROM PEOPLE WHEN YOU KEEP IT CLEAN. MAYBE THERE'S SOME UNSPOKEN RULE SOMEWHERE THAT I DON'T KNOW ABOUT WHICH STATES THAT A WOMAN CAN TEASE THE LIVING HELL OUT OF A MAN AND EXPECT TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT? IF SO, I WISH SOMEONE WOULD INFORM THE MEN ABOUT THIS RULE SO THE "WOMEN" WOULD STOP WHINING AND PLAYING THE VICTIMS ON HERE BECAUSE IT'S GETTING REALLY OLD! WAKE UP PEOPLE...FOR YOUR OWN SAKES. DON'T HANG A FRIGGIN SIGN AROUND YOUR NECK ADVERTISING FOR A GOOD TIME AND THEN SCREAM HARRASSMENT WHEN A MAN INQUIRES ABOUT IT! I HAVE FRIENDS WHO POST NUDES AND, PERSONALLY, I FEEL IT'S THEIR RIGHT TO DO SO IF THAT'S WHAT THEY WANT TO DO BUT THEY ALSO DON'T GO AROUND CRYING WHEN SOMEONE SAYS "BOO" TO THEM ABOUT THEIR CHOICE OF POSITION OR THEIR LACK OF ATTIRE. THERE'S THIS LITTLE THING CALLED A "BLOCK THIS USER" BUTTON....USE IT AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIVES!!! EVERYONE HAVE A NICE DAY AND ALWAYS REMEMBER........... IF IT LOOKS LIKE A DUCK, WALKS LIKE A DUCK AND QUACKS LIKE A DUCK, IT'S A DUCK!!! (DON'T BE A TARD AND ASK ME WHAT THAT'S SUPPOSED TO MEAN EITHER!)

ok, ok,....i understand that these things are supposed to be cool and everything so i won't start out by saying how myuch i hate them. yes, i'm using it to vent BUT that's because it's mine and very different from a bulletin. being that it's mine, if you don't like what i write, you can leave. i didn't ask you to come here and i won't ever ask you to. i'll be stepping on toes and people will be cursing me left and right (like i care) and maybe even leaving nasty comments (like i care) and i may possibly make some people cry (if you're that weak, leave now!). that being said, here goes..... #1) what in the hell is up with all the contests around here? yes, i do vote if i have a friend that i REALLY like in one of them but i would NEVER enter one. i think they only present lc members with the chance to be judgemental, to make one person feel very special or to make another feel like dirt. who's to say who's sexiest, has the sexiest eyes, has the sweetest disposition, has the smelliest ass (ok, so it hasn't gotten that bad yet...but i can see it coming!), etc. everyone on lc is special for one reason or another that is unique to the individual so why must there be a contest on anything? who really cares?? in the scheme of all things big and small and at the end of your long life, who's gonna give a rat's ass about who thought you had the biggest boobs on an internet website? lol...c'mon people.... #2) "The Family"....dare i go there? hell yes i do! i know a lot of the people in this lc group and, for the most part, they are good people but i can see a trend here and it's really gonna suck when it unfolds to it's fullest. "The Family" is pretty much creating it's own site-within-a-site and it's upsetting a lot of people. i'm not sure why, but it is. what upsets me is this....people are soon going to feel like "The Family" is trying to develope it's own little government to launch an lc uprising which would result in their taking over all of the net. yes, i know, i'm exaggerating but that's honestly how some people feel. it's a website people and we're all supposed to be family...not just a few of us. creating this group is reminiscent of some other groups that developed throughout history isn't it? i'll leave it to your imagination to guess which ones. #3) what's up with all the "do you want to fuck me?" bulletins? if you have to ask someone if they want to fuck you, the answer is no, they don't...enough said! lol so now that i've made 1/3 of you think, 1/3 of you laugh and the other 1/3 of you are pissed beyond all reason, i'm finished. don't send me any hate mail...that will only result in you being deleted from my list or, if you aren't on my list, you'll be blocked alltogether. i'm just tired of all the drama and all the high school hijinx. this place is getting to be worse than myspace as far as all that goes and i hate to see it happen. y'all have a nice night and always remember... I'M TRYING TO SEE THINGS FROM YOUR POINT OF VIEW BUT I CAN'T GET MY HEAD THAT FAR UP MY ASS!!!