LadyRed's blog: "Geez!"

Damn...I am offline for a couple of weeks and things get changed. When did they start posting each time our friends comment and vote on mumms? Trying to go back and see who posted new pictures or blogs that I haven't seen or commented on and all I see is pages full of mumm votes and comments. Yikes. So sorry if I don't read your most recent blogs and try to catch up...I have to try and dig them out of the other stuff they've got going on now. Geez. As always...if you need some advice or an ear...I'm here to listen.

*WARNING: Vent in progress* Damn...I am sooo used to dating guys that have a clue at how to do things aroudn the house that I sometimes forget my hubby hasn't GOT a clue. F*CK! So this morning...I can't get the water is the shower to turn off. Grrreat! The tub isn't draining very well, so it's filling up. I knew the knob must've been stripped, so I took it off and tried to used some pliers on it. Nothing. The tub is about half full and I can't go to work with it running or it will overflow, so I...being a brilliant thinker at this time of the morning...call my hubby at work to ask him if he has a clue as to how to turn the water off...forgetting he would be the last effin' person in the world to know how. He yells at me that he's at work and can't deal with this right now. Well fine then! So I start emptying water out of the tub with my big dutch oven. And I put my HUGE stock pot that I have...thank you Becky!...in there to let it fill up. The shower has one of those long hoses...hehehe...so it can just lay in the pot and I can just empty it when it gets full. Water level under control. Go me. Finally, my father-in-law calls. Someone with a lick of sense when it comes to household repair! He's talking me through some things to try...which aren't working. Hubby comes slamming into the house, screaming, And is trying to turn the water off...unsuccessfully. Tries a different knob...breaks it in half... He really doesn't handle any sort of stress well. Apparently they are 3 people down at work today and he's flipped out about having to leave. My father-in-law says he's on his way over. He has the tools to shut the water off at the street. So I tell my hubby to just go back to work and cool off. Off course he slams the door on the way out and peels off in a huge fit of temper. I was supposed to be at work 20 minutes ago. I HATE losing time! It hits me where it hurts...right in the paycheck. Ugh! Welcome to MONDAY! *Vent over...sorry you had to witness that*

OMG! This mumm just completely flips my lid! This lady needs her kid taken away!!! *************************************** ~~§@§§Y@§§Y~~ (User name)http://fubar.com/user/1005523 Mumm: http://fubar.com/mum.php?id=120487 He could have been killed! created @ 2007-07-22 15:14:10 -- expires in: 23 hr My 5 yr old son who plays outside all the time was told to stay in the yard while I clean my dining room and my hubby was at the fire dept yet again.... took off on his bike. I get a phone call saying "your son is riding down the main highway on the yellow line" Scared the shit out of me. I got him home and spanked him and told him how bad that scared me and what could have happened to him and that he was never to do that again. I had my nephew put his bikes up in the shed for me. What I need some advice on is how long to take it away from him. I know its gonna be a while. *************************************** SOME of the comments to her: 2007-07-22 15:32:14 #63 of 63 That is crazy why in the world would you let a 5 year old outside by himself that is stupidity on your part. You are a mom and the one responcible for their well being, i guess a clean house is more important. Schadenfreudist 2007-07-22 15:32:00 #62 of 63 can't keep kids in a bubble till they turn 18... do that and they will have no idea how to deal with things. i was off riding the hood as soon as i got my bike... crossed a street without looking, so i got grounded to my block for a while. learned a good lesson. Cupcake 2007-07-22 15:31:40 #61 of 63 Oy vey...like beating a precocious 5 year old's ass and taking his bike away for something that wasn't really his fault is definitely going to solve the problem... Yeah, let's all do that and all the kids will be more well behaved......... Right. *Robinetta* 2007-07-22 15:30:37 #60 of 63 Wastin has a point.... there was a story about a child on the Highway in Indiana.... Oddly enough I KNOW that chids mother... and he got up before the family and took off.. she went to JAIL goofydoog 2007-07-22 15:30:25 #59 of 63 A lot of harsh people out there! I'm sure you learned a lesson. I know your mad at him but depending on where you live (and it sounds like this one quailifies) he needs to be supervised. Always!!! even a fenched in back yard is not fail safe! Good luck! ~~§@§§Y@§§Y~~ 2007-07-22 15:30:02 #58 of 63 i havent deleted anything Bossdaddys Mist... 2007-07-22 15:28:38 #57 of 63 I would say a month... he will learn he maybe 5 but he knows what it means to "mind your mother" at least my kids do. wastin 2007-07-22 15:28:31 #56 of 63 I think the real question should be ....How long does the state take your 5yr old away from you for neglect. LadyRed 2007-07-22 15:28:23 #55 of 63 Schaden...there are too many kids abducted every year and there are too many pedophiles out there. There's a point when you can let your kids outside alone...but 5 years old isn't it. It is every parents worst nightmare to have a child taken. She's inviting something horrible to happen by leaving him unattended. delete comment Assologist "... 2007-07-22 15:28:20 #54 of 63 I'll give it back the same day he gets his drivers licence! BRAVO for beating his ass... Schadenfreudist 2007-07-22 15:27:43 #53 of 63 i was ok alone at 5, but now i shouldn't be left unattended, robinetta.. i've regressed to a 3yo. *Robinetta* 2007-07-22 15:27:04 #52 of 63 Ok Lady.... YOU were in the wrong here to be Honest.. dont delete opinions that YOU wanted. Cupcake 2007-07-22 15:26:23 #51 of 63 Yeah, but back when we were 5, you didn't see kids getting kidnapped left and right in broad daylight... RAIN 2007-07-22 15:26:14 #50 of 63 No Schad I had responsible parents. ~*~ Dj Debra*Ri... 2007-07-22 15:26:09 #49 of 63 2007-07-22 15:22:53 #38 of 38 where were you again? and why was your child alone? you should pay more attention low voltage guy 2007-07-22 15:25:43 #48 of 63 is there points for being STUPID? Suga Lips 2007-07-22 15:25:33 #47 of 63 I wasn't Schaden. We're overprotective b/c we watch our children?! You know how many kids get abducted? Do you know most of the time it's close to their house? ~*Twitchy*~ (A ... 2007-07-22 15:25:27 #46 of 63 Parents like you piss me off. I get so angry when I see a child under the age of 8 outside by themselves. Who knows who will come around and just take your kid. How do you know your kid wont get HIT by a car? What were you thinking? Take the bike away, and the only time he is permitted to ride is when YOU or your husband are OUTSIDE with him. Stormy 2007-07-22 15:25:03 #45 of 63 I must agree no leaving the kids outside alone! We all make mistakes but that could have been the last one you made with him! I lock my son in the house with me when I think he may take off while I am in the shower and stuff, just incase he wanted to go outside! He can't undo the type of dead bolt we have! Maybe look into getting one? *Celia*{Wife Of... 2007-07-22 15:24:54 #44 of 63 You deleted my comment for speaking the truth???? You dumb bitch!! *Robinetta* 2007-07-22 15:24:26 #43 of 63 Schad..... even YOU shouldnt be left alone low voltage guy 2007-07-22 15:24:20 #42 of 63 when do you get you spanking for letting a 5 year old unattended? Cupcake 2007-07-22 15:24:06 #41 of 63 *still shaking her head in total disbelief* I hope you've learned YOUR lesson.... Babs310 ~* Bart... 2007-07-22 15:23:23 #40 of 63 What do you expect when you leave a 5y/o outside and tell him not to do something? You're very lucky he was not killed!! He shouldn't be punished, you should be, I wouldn't be surprised if some one called the state on you ass, god knows I would. Next time you need to clean keep the kid inside the house with you, or put up a fence - but that won't stop him if he is determined to do something. Give him back his bike in a week, its not his fault he left him alone and expected him to listen to your directions, a 5 year old is going to explore. *Robinetta* 2007-07-22 15:23:17 #39 of 63 Oh Hell!! 5 and you tell him to stay in the fuckin yard? while YOU look away?? RIGHT!! that worked out well didnt it?

I am a Myspace girl. I admit it...lol. I got invited to this site by my best friend, Scott, and you'd think I've never been on a site like this before. I took me a week to figure out where to go to post a damn blog...lmao. At least I can start blogging now...lol. And while we're on the subject of this site... Man, I thought the guys were bad on Myspace! It's no comparison to the number of single, horny, desperate guys on here who can't seem to actually read a profile....lol. I wasn't on here a full TWO minutes and I had 47 friend invites! ALL from single guys whose profiles said they were into sex or looking for love. There is now way they had the time to read that I was married. Talk about getting overwhelmed though! Wow! How do people keep up with actually talking to each other if they're having to sift through a mountain of friend invites?? I actually read the profiles of each one to see what it is they are looking for. I'm sorry, but I'm not going to add someone who's got 5,000 friends or sends me corny pick up lines. I am not sure I will have the time to be reading and giving comments...and readign and replying ot the shoutbox...AAAANNNDDD buying and giving gifts, Whew! That's a lot! Here's the deal people... I work full time. Then I come home...and I'm a full time mother. I cook. I take care of the kiddos. I clean up. Laundry. Bathe the kids and put them to bed. Love up on the husband. Yada yada yada. Basically, I have a full day. I usually grab internet time during lunch or in the late evenings right before bed. If I am not commenting on your page or all your pictures...please forgive me. I don't mean to. I do try to respond to all or most of my messages. Just keep in your mind that I'm a woman with a hectic schedule and be patient with me...k? *hug*