I have this friend named Nick. I had known him for years. Almost a decade. I met him on a site called Lavalife. He was an avid member. I joined for my college assignment. Almost two weeks at the site, i met some characters including Mr. Nick.
Nick had hang-ups because of his parents, the luck department was out and the woman he desired lived in another state.
He felt tied to Florida and could not leave for shit. He had a job and he had a parent that had control over him. Even if he admits it or not.
One evening I received an Email at my old Yahoo account saying " Hello My name is Nick". Within a short few hours, he added me onto his Yahoo Messanger account.
For hours we spoke endlessly about love, our personal and private lives. He confessed within a few hours that he was in love and had so much fear of losing her because of his depression, his family and his own looks.
Three hours turned out to be all nighters. We even spoke on most holidays for nearly 10 hours.
This went on for months. Just then he began saying dumb stuff like " I love" and he'd give off the woman he adored sister. He would call me anyone he can think of. Often he would do this whenever I pinned him up against a wall. Theoretically speaking. He couldn't pull away and whenever he tried, he would block you. He would later return without giving a reason. So I would call him out on it. Each time he came up with an excuse. Those excuses got extraordinary and odd. Suddenly I pulled away and I explained that I had enough of the bad treatment. This went on for years. He'd pull me near just to walk all over me.
One year he got mad at me for not leaving my husband. He fumed, he cursed me out. Finally I had enough.My husband Emailed him. He chewed Nick out. One day I received an Email from Nick saying a famous singer had Emailed him. Nick seemed to forget that we were going through turmoil. For awhile this nonsense went on until he joined this site.
He sent me an Email explaining that I won't be able to find him at this site. To his dismay, who do I see but him. I Emailed, Made my presence known and again the bidding war began all over again. At times we seem ok. But deep down we are far from it.
I had spoken with my good friend Miss TORY and she told me to just abandon ship like he has. She told me some great gems of advice. So I am going to take her advice. Let's see if he is going to listen to me now especially when no one is.
Not only that but he has ignored his closest and dearest friends to speak to everyone on this site. He has got into fights here on this site just like what he did at Myspace, and Lavalife, Match.com and other sites.
Did you know that he created alias accounts just to see what certain people are saying about himself. Did you know that he has chased after so many girls in relationships?
I adore this man as my friend but I am sick of getting played by him. I am not his rug. I am not his fiddle he can toy with. I AM A HUMAN BEING WITH FEELINGS.
