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So Starting my rambles fresh again ....I do that from time to time :)

This subject has repeated itself in my previous blogs over and over again for many reasons and for different people that meant a lot to me and in particular my bestie :). 

This may seem like a list i put together off of random quotes on some facebook group or a google search but no....Its actualy  my personal thoughts and feelings put in some random order. 

1. Real Friendship is not how much you talk or even the quality of your conversations at times ....Its that feeling that you have that you just haveeeeeee to tell that certain person this thing that just happaned to you. wether it be boring , crazy , sad , happy or whatever ...You know that person will listen and you cant wait to hear their reaction. 

2. Real Friendship is not codes . Bros before Hoes or Chicks before Dicks. Its simply being honest and decent and care enough to not step on a person's toes. thats where respect comes from. You don't a list of codes for that or a manual. 

3. Real Friendship is no matter how silly and crazy and senseless you are the other person will laugh and flow with you. They dont have to understand you or identify with you. Not every word has to be OMG I KNOW ...but its cool when it happens :) 

4. Real Friendship is knowing how to filter all the stupid shit around you. If you trust your instincts and guts , if youre happy with who you chose to have as a friend than the world can keep talking and jumping in 8 loops. What you think and feel matters. 

5. Some Friendships aren't forever and it doesnt have to be a bad thing that ended it. Sometimes other circumstances cause it to fade away. Some people are only meant to play a part of your life at one point and thats ok. Few are forever and when you find them don't let go. 

6. Friendship is Faceless, Ageless , colorless and doesn't have to be consisted of similarities and reading eachother's minds. Difference is something that can inrich you , make you learn new things, new point of views you never looked at and future amazing moments to experience. 

7. Friendship is work, don't let anyone fool you. Its a relationship just like any kind there is. If you can't dedicate yourself to someone or feel the same dedication back, don't bother,

8. On that last note, the dedication and love you get back from a friend doesn't have to match the way you show yours. It can be different but not less meaningful and amazing . So don't judge , assume, ignore or over look the little things. You will miss out on a lot of signs that show you that person really cares about you. 

9. Friendship is not equal or not equal. You can't put it in an equation. Just like you can't compare apples and oranges. Friendship is formed for thousand of reasons or none at all and  its not just a simple 1+1. Its a choice you make that hey....i just want that person to be a part of my life. 

10. Friendship means you allow the other person to be themselves , to not always be on your side , to not dislike things or people just cause you do. The same way you still want to be you. 

11. Friendship is being there when things are boring and saying that Hi Whats up ? even when there is nothing new to tell or hear.  Its a  simple declaration that says : Hi Im here and I care . 

12. Friendship is also realising that when you have a wonderful friend it pretty much means you are quite awesome yourself :)

13. ( Cause I had to end it with a Jewish Luck number and a Creepy Horror films number ) Friendship is knowing that when you are in the car and  "Ain't no Mountain High Enough" comes on that wether they like that song or not they will belt it out right with you !!! 

I could go on and on and on..

I used to be a person that thought they knew exactly what a  friend should be, I put standards and rated them almost like dates lol. I lost a lot of good people because of that...I was very harsh and judgemental.

Over the years and growing up i realized ( mainly through my bestie here :)  ) that Friendship steps out of the ideal lines that i drew in my head...I opened myself , my heart , my insecurities, and learned there is beauty that i over looked. 

Some disappointments accured as well . but thats what happens when you give chances. However....It takes one...Just one person to make that effort worth your while. 

I can proudly and whole heartedly say that My bestie was worth all the idiots i stupidly attached myself to...wether it be friendships or more on this site.

If anything this place is worth something JUST for that. Take all the aspect of this place away, lounges , blings, guys etc...

I dont care....cause what I found is priceless :)

So if you have an amazing friend just like I do ....Make sure you remind them sometimes how awesome they are. No need to be over cheesy LOL...but make sure they know. 

Till The next time I feel like writing ....Cya :P 

Tushy