Okay. I'm not totally sure where to start here. But I'm almost positive that your little status message is geared towards me.
"If you think he loves you...you're an idiot!!!!"
Well, let me break a few things down for you.
First of all, YOU are the only one making that assumption.
Secondly, He was fair game when YOU moved out of the apartment. And from what he says, your relationship wasn't so gravy even before that.
I don't assume that anyone loves me because I've been hurt way to much for that. I'm very cynical. I honestly have a hard time trusting guys. But with him it's different.He's honest about everything. No bullshit. And it's really no biggie if he messes around with other girls because, I don't own him.
And just for the record, you never owned him either. You can't own a human being.
so yeah. I was the girl at the apartment when you came barging in on your birthday. I was actually sleeping on the couch, and then had gotten up to make some lunch for my friend so he could sleep in before work. But you came crashing into the apartment making more noise than a banshee and i thought someone was breaking in so i bolted into his room cuz you scared the shit out of me with all that noise.
so yeah. He was naked in the room by himself and I was fully dressed. Didn't you notice that my purse was there, and my sweatshirt was there but not my shoes? Yeah I think you'd agree that nobody would wear shoes while being completely naked.That would look absolutely retarded. Same reason my purse and my jacket were on the couch, and next to the couch.
I needed a place to crash for a night. I was having a hard time. So mike offered me his couch. I was respectful of you and your place in that home until you decided to leave it while he was at work. That my friend was your choice.
I am in no hurry to get into a serious relationship. Because they always end up being a waste of my time. Which is why Mike and I are just friends. If it goes farther than that, okay. If it doesn't, oh well. No loss to me.
He's been one of the best friends I've ever had. And yes I know about his past and all that you did for him as well. He told me all that. And he told me how greatful he was for all that you did for him.
But nobody has told anyone that they love each other because that would be stupid so early in the game. Life is about having fun and dealing with the bad shit as it comes. If you can't enjoy life a little, what's the point in living?
When I said I loved him, it was because he was thoughtful enough to send me flowers. It was an, "Awe, that was thoughtful" kind of I love him. not "Oh I love him wanna marry him."
So believe what you want. Make the assumptions that you want. But you are only basing your opinions on what you THINK is fact butdon't actually know. And that's all I'm going to say on the matter.
I hope you are successful in your life. I hope you go far. And I hope you end up happy. But please.Don't take your anger out on me by making snotty remarks like that when you don't have any facts to back it up.
That's all I'm gonna say in the matter... Have a good one.
