to let everyone know, i'm not one to call anyone "friend" from the beginning. i have to feel i can trust you before i'll use that word. with that said, here goes. i'm extremely frustrated that i have had 3 people in the last 2 months flip on me. now, the first one was my ex girlfriend who broke up with me on jan 1 this year, 2nd was a co-worker who has a very controlling/jealous boyfriend, and 3rd was a co-worker who i was starting to get to know better away from work. the first stings a good bit because i kinda saw it coming but didn't think it would really happen. the second was kind of a shock because she had told me that they had an understanding and that she and i could text whenever. now, the third has really pissed me off because it effects my job. it seems that i'm under "investigation" because of something i supposedly did to this co-worker. none of my supervisors (sargents, captain) will tell me what i did to be in trouble. i was told i would have to talk to the chief to find out. wtf???? this is going all the way up to the chief and i don't even know what i'm being charged with!