Today I was talking to my sister. And every other thing is "Im tired of the drama"
She has twins and is a single mom.
She thinks she needs a man to survive. Every other day she messages me about a guy that she's "with" that's treating her like crap. So I tell her that she needs to worry about her kids more. Less about men.
She said to me "I just want to be loved" so I replied "so, what your family doesn't love you and I don't love you?"
She said to me " Yeah thats true but Im tired of gertting hurt in the end"
I hate to say this but I think she needs some serious help.
Why the fuck does a woman with kids need to be worried about herself and a man. Should those kids not get all her attention.
Im really confused here. I mean like does she not have any common sense?
Havn't women been doing the whole raising children thing alone for a while?
I mean it seems like -- she don't give a relationship time. She finds 'em and you can clearly see they arnt the right one for her. Many Many Many Many times I have tried to explain this shit to her and she don't get it.
Like I don't know what Im talking about. I know Im only 22 but, I get it.
It took me 1 year to decide if I wanted to date my current boyfriend. I didn't just crawl into bed with him. I don't have kids but I know that kids demand more attention than you have. Specially TWINS.
Im not writing this to make her sound bad or anything but, I usually use my blogs like a diary.. a place where I can get shit off my chest without normally having to get shit on about how I feel.
Regardless...she seems desperate for a man in her life. But she loves the first one that comes along. No real standards but alot of expectations.
I don't know about this situation. Maybe if I wave a $20 dollar bill in front of her face and tell her to knock her dumb drama shit off she will get it. IDK
Whatever