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independence & children

Independence & children…. Ok, had teacher conference yesterday. Overall my child is doing well…. However….. Evidently she has an issue with how I walk my child to her locker in the morning & wait in line with her outside. Teacher says I need to give more trust & independence. Other parents don’t wait in line with their kids or walk them to their lockers, so evidently I am not suppose to either. I am taking advantage of the situation while I can. I know one day, & its coming soon, where my kid is going to tell me not to do these things anymore. We have already talked about very important independent situations that will be happening in the near future. Its not something that we can change overnight. It takes time & we already have a plan. I already trust my child with some very independence. I am not saying the parents that don’t what I do are wrong for them & I am not saying that what I am doing is right for them. From the time I was about 8 I was riding the city bus over a mile to school & then I would walk home afterschool. When I was my childs age I was walking half a mile to my school bus stop & would ride a bus an hour to school & an hour back to school. The pattern continues when I was in middle school with the city bus & in high school with the school bus. All the time leaving on my own & going home to be alone several hours before any one came home. I became fiercely independent & have no problem with being alone, in fact I prefer it. If it wasn’t for my child I would be alone & it wouldn’t bother me. Helping my child be social & independent at the same time is not easy, but I want her to know that someone is there for her, someone she can count on. She was, more or less, abandoned by her real father when she was 4 & hasn’t seen her papa in over 2 years. That is why I do what I do, I do not want her to feel abandoned & that she can only count on herself, that she can count on others too. Independence is cool & all, but having someone around is also cool. I am just trying to raise the best kid that I know how to. If that is wrong…. Then its wrong… but no teacher is going to tell me that I am raising my child wrong, because they are not in my situation & this is the first teacher in 5 years that has had a problem with this….. Those of you that know my child, know what a social, productive, caring person she is & she didn’t get that way on her own….. She had a little help from me…

popularity

i am pretty sure there was a point in most peoples lives where they didnt feel like part of group that they were part of. I keep noticing even though i parts of different groups where we all have something in common, that i am often, if not all the time, left out. Left out of conversations, outings, socializing get togethers, etc..... Whether its my childs school, her cheerleading group, or different online groups that i am part of (that i hold staff positions in) where there is a bond that brought us all together. I feel totally left out... i try to be part of the group, though i am constantly left out.... It gets tiring.... and all this, is just an observation...

my graphics

ok, after looking around rating & commenting peoples pics i see my graphics are like childrens art. i am not saying childrens art is bad, just saying for an adult my graphics do not compare to the custom graphics of others on here. i have no formal training, i have taken no classes & cannot afford the latest, greatest software to make the really cool graphics.

(not so)secret points

ok, i keep on finding new ways to give & get points.... rate & comment stash is another way i have found to gain points.... there was another way... but i have forgotten, though i posted about it somewhere....

contest stuff

ok, about a week or so ago i entered my first contest here.... since i dont think too highly of my looks i entered a contest where looks doesnt matter... although it appeared that nearly nakid women being in the pic mattered.... needless to say i didnt win.... maybe its because i didnt have a nearly naked person in my picture or i dont have enough friends, leverage to win around here.... so i think if i enter any more contests it will have to be things like pets & children..... those are the only contests i can think of where clothing not optional... ok, enough of my rant for now....

new cherry levels.....

so i dont forget & have a reference place..... Levels Cherry Points Required 0 Freshmeat 0 1 New Cherry 250 2 Cherry 500 3 Tight Cherry 1,000 4 Chill Cherry 2,000 5 Psycho Cherry 4,000 6 Twisted Cherry 6,500 7 Wasted Cherry 9,000 8 Magic Cherry 14,000 9 Magic Cherry 25,000 10 Friend of CherryTAP 35,000 11 Nutty Cherry 50,000 12 Inspired Cherry 75,000 13 Ripe Cherry 100,000 14 Epic Cherry 135,000 15 Cherry Idol 170,000 16 Cherry Lover 210,000 17 Cherry Pimp 250,000 18 Cherry Assassin 300,000 19 Cherry Ninja 350,000 20 Cherry Rock Star 425,000 21 Uber Cherry 750,000 22 Cherry Picker 1,500,000 23 Cherry Henchman 2,250,000 24 Cherry Insider 3,000,000 25 Cherry Godfather 6,000,000

stash amount limits

i seem to be unable to add any more stuff to my stash..... is there a limit i dont know about? the items just arent showing up.... so can anyone tell me whats up with that???
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Just trying to figure the secret ways to get points.... figured out the stash thing. though if it is only 1 point per item stashed its almost pointless..... well thats it for now... yeah i know its not exciting, but it wasnt meant to be....
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