Seduce my mind and you can have my body ...'s blog: "Every Woman Should .."

created on 05/02/2008 | http://fubar.com/every-woman-should/b212303

posted on 09/12/2008&nbs-07:00;@&nbs-07:00;02:09&nbs-07:00;am

Every Woman Should ..
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Every Woman Should Have • one old love she can imagine going back to... and one who reminds her how far she has come... • enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own... even if she never wants to or needs to... • something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour... • a youth she's content to leave behind... • a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age... • the realization that she is actually going to have an old age and some money set aside to fund it... • a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra... • one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry... • a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family... • eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored... • a resume that is not even slightest bit padded.. • a feeling of control over her destiny... Every Woman Should Know • how to fall in love without losing herself... • how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship... • when to try harder... and when to walk away... • how to have a good time at a party she'd never choose to attend... • how to ask for what she wants in a way that makes it most likely she'll get it... • that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents... • that her childhood may not have been perfect... but its over... • what she would and wouldn't do for love or more... • how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it... • whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally... • where to go ... be it to her best friend's kitchen table ... or a charming inn in the woods . .. when her soul needs soothing... • what she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month... and a year...