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1. Appreciate what you have: Remember that the world owes you nothing, hence everything you have, everything you own, your security, the fact that you are alive is something to be appreciated. Never forget that the grass is not always greener on the other side, for every single person who wishes to be married, there are legions of married men who wish they weren't. Freedom and solitude are two things that many single men never appreciate until it is taken away from them.
2. Enjoy yourself: Yes the world can be horrible, but it can also be a wonderful place. There are so many things this world has to offer and so many things single men can look forward too. There are so many locations to travel, food to taste, wines to drink, cigars to smoke, motorcycles or cars to ride, hobbies to pursue, the list is endless. Find what you like to do and do it.
3. Look after yourself: This links directly with point no. 2, men have been taught their whole lives to sacrifice themselves for others, and although such a thought is very noble, remember that in todays world nobody cares about the welfare of men. In fact the person who cares about you the most is yourself. So work/study hard, invest, save, eat right and exercise. Find that perfect balance between work and play.
4. Be happy with yourself: This is perhaps one of the hardest steps for some men to take. Learn to be happy with who you are, do not rely of others (especially women) for your own self-esteem. Remember that all men have faults and flaws but every man has strengths and virtues. Do not judge yourself against others or rely on the judgement of others (unless it is constructive criticism). You have your beliefs and as long as you see yourself matching with those beliefs then be happy with who you are. And if you need to change, do so for your own benefit, to please yourself, not for the sake of others
