OK so this morning my other phone rung and it was a neighbour from where I used to live - apparently some guy was loking for me about my sister (real life one) - I was wtf I aint heard from her in like 14 years so about 20 minutes later the guy calld me and wanted to come round and talk before he called her and said it was all good - still in shock at this burly londoner hitting my house :) we spoke, he remembered me when I was a baby and he remembered all my family too - any way - me and my sister spoke on the phone and it was all emotions and tears and shock and excitement - ............................ and i spoke to my neice as well - good times - and many more to come now - and she hates my step mum as well - good :)