Just get this off my head. I have a 15 year old daughter who lives with me during the week. I found out that her mother bash the hell out of me this past week. To my knowledge it was the first time.
1. I let here down and she can not trust I will be there for her.
- She moved in with me because her mother could not stand her there.
- Her grades pick up and she got her first straight A grades in high school.
- I cook her breakfast every mourning and pack her lunch.
- I “choose” not to date so it will not interfere with her life.
2. Because of her that she (mother) didn’t have a life.
- Hummm I don’t believe she was ask to come here.
- We where using a condom so it must have been for a reason.
- She still graduated high school and college.
- She started dating the guy she married within a year of the breakup with me.
- She went to the prom (told her she didn’t).(SUCK anyway).
- Her mother parents where about to sign a divorce that stop when she got pregnant.
2. I never done anything for her.
- I take her on trips with me when I can.
- I bought her a car.
- She has her own room (mother gave her room away when she moved out; she sleeps on a couch now when she is there).
Now should I go after her and set her straight and maybe have my daughter 7 days a week or forget about it and try to explain to my daughter why she did this.
