Hey All! Just had to share the good news! Dad went to his Ortho. Dr. yesterday and they released him to go back to work. His ankle is still healing BUT He is doing much better. He only needs a cane to walk with now. He has Physical Therapy 2x's a week for at least 3 more weeks could be longer. I will however still be going to his house once every two weeks to pay off my divorce loan. Dad gave me the money to get my divorce. If I waited till I had the money I'd never get one. LOL. Tony has really messed things up. He has been with a co-worker for over a year and I just found out for sure on the 17th. That is the day he left to take her to Ft. Lauderdale FL for "OUR" weeks vacation. Dad and I jumped thru hoops to get all his Dr.Appt.s moved till this week so I could be off with him. Well he left that Friday. Was the 4th week in a row that he found a reason or picked a fight to leave and go somewhere. Well he was only getting some of his clothes! No Way! I made em' get ALL of his clothes and bathroom stuff. He has been without his computer and video games since and could not wait for the divorce to get the "crapy" laptop he bought me. He went out last night to buy a computer.LMAO. He is not only a DRUNK BUT is addicted to Dungeons and Dragons on line. He got to the point that he was calling in work 2-3x's per week cause he was too hung over or still drunk and would come home and drink and play at 8 am till he went to bed that night. He got to the point that he would NOT go anywhere with me or the kids. If he did we had to fight bout him not drinking and driving or we would have to wait on him to finish a quest. He has lost his family due to his drinking and VERY poor choices he made while doing so. Tammy aka the Ho' has no idea what she is in for. I am sooooo glad to be off the rollercoaster ride with him. Never knowing if he was gonna be happy or mad from one min. to the next. The Friday he left I picked up Patrick and he had no idea that Tony had came back from the 1st time he left. The first thing he said was Momma I liked Mr. Tony BUT I hated the way he treated you. Those words from my 8 yr old gave me the strenght I need to get this over and done with ASAP. I did not realize it was affecting the kids BUT it was. In more ways than I realized. Even Sara 4 yrs said on her own We don't need no stinkn' Daddy. So I am much more cautious bout what I say around them. I am trying to arrage some type of visitation with Sara and Tony outside of my Apt. it seems to be causing a problem. Tony seems to think it is grab and go time instead of visiting with his daughter. He also chooses to fight with me and she has seen enough of that! So we are tying to work something out. I really want to thank my Friends that have been here for me duing this crap and thur all my Dad's illness and injury.I feel so strong. I have a Friend that seems to think that it just has not hit me yet. OH YES IT HAS! The last time I took him back I told myself that was it and I drew the line. He was only taking a few things cause he thought he could come back here. He really needs help and I did the only thing I can do and that is let him go. He needs to get well on his own. The kids and I are staying in the Apt. till Jan and then we are moving in with my Mom till I can save enough money to get a house on my own. I want to do it on my own without a man to help "take care of me". I want to do it on my own and prove to him that I can do what I want without him. I have already seen a decrease in the groceries that I have to buy. With it just me and Sara we don't plow thru the food. We eat normal meals at noram times. Tony would eat and drink all night and by mid week we would be low on food. It has been so peaceful around here. I LOVE the fact that I don't have to walk on eggshells daily. I am trying to get "fixed" b4 my insurnce runs out. He keeps saying he is gonna drop me off the insurance b4 the divorce BUT he can't. I am done breeding. LOL I hope this clears things up for those that don't know where I have been. I have missed ya'll and hope to catch up soon. I will keep ya'll posted on what is goning on. I'll be back on Fu' now LOL Real World can go away for a bit again everyday. Once again Thanks to those who have hit me up and sent me things to make me laugh. You know who you are. Those that have not Please do so. LOL I love ya'll!
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