Hello!

Thank you for taking the time to view my profile. I am an attending student and full-time employee studying Information Systems Security. Family and friends are the most important thing in my life, and my career is in a close second place. I mean after all, I work to live not live to work!
I promise that you will never meet anyone quite like me. You can decide whether or not that is a good thing. Here is a preview: I am 5'11" feet tall, basically tall, dark, handsome, and witty as well as intelligent. Those Chicago Summer's just soothed me to sleep I love pouring rain/thunderstorms and scorching hot beaches.

I am a hard working loving father and husband, but it seems that I married way to young, my wife is much older than I am an more experienced of course. Either I am just too sex crazed and I need it alot or I am just too kinky for my wife who is set in her ways. When I try to suggest some new foreplay, roleplay, any new ideas to spice up our sex life, she just pushes away and says No! I love my wife I really do, however, I also need Sex not a just a relationship. but must be discreet


Ok, well I am going into this with a decidedly open mind. I'm hoping for the best, lol, but realize that even with an open mind that this will likely lead to nothing more than frustration. I consider myself a positive person; for me that means flexing my creative muscles and enjoying life to the fullest. looks/body type aren't necessarily what attracts me...don't get me wrong a beautiful woman still catches my attention (yes I'm slightly shallow that way) however, that does NOT mean that i expect you to be an underwear model. Basically i believe that if you respect yourself, you'll respect me. And since the idea is that this is a physical encounter, that's important. Personality, and intellect, and the way we get along does wonders don't you think? Personality makes up for alot but I do take care of myself, so if you smoke a pack a day, get drunk 4 nights a week and your food description is "fried," than we probably won't get along, lol.

According to studies, the first letter of your first name reveals your sexual identity ... What do you think? I know mine is right on! What's the first letter in your name?

-J-
You are totally fu*king marvelous!

Enough about me, tell me about yourself!