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created on 01/28/2007  |  http://fubar.com/cassie-s-blog/b49661

Love or Money

You Would Choose Love
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Money may buy a little happiness, but not the happiness of true love.
You rather have a true soulmate than a private jet.
And while many people may claim they would choose love too...
You're one of the few who would really do it.
Well, I really missed my hubby more than ever today. Not only because it's Valentine's Day, but today made three years for us. :)) I knew he wouldn't forget, but I didn't expect to get a gift on two seperate days. Yesterday he sent me the Velvet heart with yummy chocolates with a sweet little note. I don't think I've ever eat any as good. We were on the phone whenever I got it, so it was really sweet. Today he sent me a bouque of beautiful Roses and Lilies with a second little love note. :) They are just so pretty and smell so good. I took them out of the bouque and put them in a vase so they can fully bloom. My hubby and I have also decided that whenever he gets home from Iraq we are going to be moving out of state. I'm sort of nervous but excited at the same time. He was offered a job working in the IT field, but it also requires that he re-inlists in the military, but atleast it will be under non-deployment statis, and I am VERY happy about that. He is only going to re-inlist for another two years. After that he will start his career as a Computer Programmer. Anyways, I also decided that Web Design is the career I want which is great, because we both love computers and can work side by side. I already have a lot of experience with computers, so now all I have to do is finish up school!! I'm almost there... :)) Anyways, hope everyone had a Happy Valentine's Day!! Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting
Over the years I have talked a lot about military spouses, how special they are and the price they pay for freedom too. The funny thing about it, is most military spouses don't consider themselves different from other spouses. They do what they have to do, bound together not by blood or merely friendship, but with a shared spirit whose origin is in the very essence of what love truly is. Is there truly a difference? You have to decide for yourself. Other spouses get married and look forward to building equity in a home and putting down family roots. Military spouses get married and know they'll live in base housing or rent, and their roots must be short so they can be transplanted frequently.Other spouses decorate a home with flair and personality that will last a lifetime. Military spouses decorate a home with flare tempered with the knowledge that no two base houses have the same size windows or same size rooms. Curtains have to be flexible and multiple sets are a plus. Furniture must fit like puzzle pieces.Other spouses have immaculate living rooms and are seldom used. Military spouses have immaculate living room/dining room combos. The coffee table got a scratch or two moving from Germany, but it still looks pretty good. Other spouses say good-bye to their spouse for a business trip and know they won't see them for a week. They are lonely, but can survive. Military spouses say good-bye to their deploying spouse and know that they won't see them for a month, or for a remote, a year. They are lonely, but they will survive. Other spouses, when a washer hose blows off, call Maytag and then write a check out for getting the hose reconnected. Military spouses will cut the water off and fix it themselves.Other spouses get used to saying hello to friends they see all the time. Military spouses get used to saying good-bye to friends made the last two years. Other spouses worry about whether their child will be class president next year. Military spouses worry about whether their child will be accepted in yet another new school next year and whether that school will be the worst in the city...again. Other spouses can count on spouse participation in special events, birthdays, anniversaries, concerts, football games, graduation, and even the birth of a child. Military spouses only count on each other; because they realize that the Flag has to come first if freedom is to survive. It has to be that way. Other spouses put up yellow ribbons when the troops are imperiled across the globe and take them down when the troops come home. Military spouses wear yellow ribbons around their hearts and they never go away. Other spouses worry about being late for Mom's Thanksgiving dinner. Military spouses worry about getting back from Japan in time for Dad's funeral.And other spouses are touched by the television program showing an elderly lady putting a card down in the front of a long, black wall that has names on it. The card simply says, "Happy Birthday, Sweetheart. You would have been sixty today." A military spouse is the lady with the card. The wall is the Vietnam Memorial. I would never say military spouses are better or worse than other spouses are. But I will say there is a difference. And I will say that our country asks more of military spouses than asked of other spouses. And I will say without hesitation that military spouses pay just as high a price for freedom as do their active duty husbands or wives. Perhaps the price they pay is even higher. Dying in service to our Country isn't near as hard as loving someone who has died in service to our Country, and having to live without them. God Bless our military spouses for all they freely give... And God Bless America!!

Check out this girl!!

My very good friend posted this bulletin over on myspace... Now I have never been a military wife but I was a gf of a solider. I met military wives and know what they go thru on a daily basis, from being alone to scrapping pennies together. They don't live in luxury, they live for love. They are not as this wench describes. I'd bet that the military wives have more heart then this little nobody. I have to compose myself before giving her a piece of my mind but I couldn't let this pass by another day without sending it out to my friends. Cath OK LADIES SO I GOT THIS OFF A MILITARY GROUP AND IT REALLY PISSED ME OFF READ IT AND YOU'LL SEE WHY!!! wanted to make sure all military wives got it and would hopefully pass it on As a fellow military wife i feel a special bond with each and every other military wife even if i don't know them that well. I felt compelled to share this with you. I want you to read what one girl thinks about us. I'm so appauled by her comments. And after being pleasant and trying to inform her she had more to say. Here is just the first part. I am so sad that you call us "civilians" like we are beneath you or something? I am sooo hurt that every military wife thinks they have it harder than any other person in this world. Being in the military is just like working anywhere else in this country, except you make more money for a lot easier positions and you get more money for BREEDING!!! I can't believe what this world is coming to.. The men who enter the military say they want to protect our country but yet everytime someone says they don't like how the military operates they are really mad at us "civilians" for standing up for ourselves. We are not beneath you just because I or my husband does not want to go into the military. Careers are personal choices and you could die on any job site not just from being in the military! It is probably really hard not seeing your husband for so long, but thats part of the duty as being a military wife I guess, or so I am told. but wait there's more! I pray every night that Bush would send the wives over seas with their men because then us "civilians" wouldnt have to listen to them wine about how much them miss them and want to spend their money while they sit at home!!! Get a fucking life, I feel sorry for you people that you have to sit on your fat asses and mooch off your husband and that you arent educated enough to get a job. Have a great life whores! This girl makes me sick. I've already messeged with how I felt about what she said. Feel free to do the same. Thanks! I'm so disgusted by this girl. I can only hope that as friends you all can send her a message telling her what military wives are really about. Because she won't listen to just one apparently. Also she saw my husband's page and said she was ashamed to have a child with the same name as a soldier! Please pass this on to other wives!!! Please ask them to talk to this girl I can't believe there are people out there like her! This is her myspace website http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=102148253&Mytoken=E921821F-3671-4054-BC8788A80B0C5DA259794353 her name is Ashley Jervis. Please let her know the truth please. thanks ladies!!!

6 word love note

Body: 6 word love note IF this doesn't touch you.....you're heartless. One night a guy & a girl were driving home from the movies. The girl sensed there was something wrong because of the painful silence they shared between them that night. The guy pulled over and told the girl he wanted to talk. He told her that his feelings had changed & that it was time to move on. A silent tear slid down her cheek as she slowly reached into her pocket & passed him a folded note. At that moment, a drunk driver was speeding down that very same street. He swerved right into the girls side, killing the girl. Miraculously, the guy survived. Remembering the note, he pulled it out & read it. "Without your love, I would die."

Daddy's Poem

Her hair was up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow. Today was Daddy's Day at school, and she couldn't wait to go. But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably should stay home. Why the kids might not understand, if she went to school alone. But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say. What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today. But still her mother worried, for her to face this day alone. And that was why once again, she tried to keep her daughter home. But the little girl went to school eager to tell them all. About a dad she never sees; a dad who never calls. There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet. Children squirming impatiently, anxious in their seats One by one the teacher called a student from the class. To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed. At last the teacher called her name, every child turned to stare. Each of them was searching, for a man who wasn't there. "Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out. "She probably doesn't have one," another student dared to shout. And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy say, "Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste his day." The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at her Mom. And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go on. And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to speak. And out from the mouth of a child, came words incredibly unique. "My Daddy couldn't be here, because he lives so far away. But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such a special day. And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know. All about my daddy, and how much he loves me so. He loved to tell me stories he taught me to ride my bike. He surprised me with pink roses, and taught me to fly a kite. We used to share fudge sundaes, and ice cream in a cone. And though you cannot see him. I'm not standing here alone. "Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are apart I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my heart" With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest. Feeling her own heartbeat, beneath her favorite dress. And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears. Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond her years. For she stood up for the love of a man not in her life. Doing what was best for her, doing what was right. And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd. She finished with a voice so soft, but its message clear and loud. "I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star. And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too far You see he was a firefighter and died just this past year When airplanes hit the towers and taught Americans to fear. But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he never went away." And then she closed her eyes, and she saw him there that day. And to her mothers amazement, she witnessed with surprise A room full of daddies and children, all starting to close their eyes. Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what they felt inside. Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her side. "I know you're with me Daddy," to the silence she called out. And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with doubt. Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had been closed. But there on the desk beside her, was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose. And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her shining star. And given the gift of believing, that heaven is never too far.
1.Thou shalt not write in ink in thy address book. 2.Thou shalt not covet choice assignments of other uniformed braches of service. 3.Love thy neighbor. 4. Honor thy Commissary and Exchange as long as they both shall live. 5.Thou shalt not ridicule a local politician, for mighty senators from local politicians grow. 6.Thou shall look for the best in every assignment, even though the best may be. "The most childhood diseases in one year," or "Record snow in one months time." 7. Thou shall remember all thy friends from all thy assignments, with greeting cards at Christmas, for thou never knowest when thou may wish to spendeth a night with them while enroute to a new post/base. 8.Be kind and gentle to retired, white-haired Exchange and Commissary customers, because thou too will be a retiree someday. 9.Thou shalt not curse thy husband when he's on TDY on moving day. 10.Thou must never arrive at a new post/base and constantly brag about how everything was much better at the last post/base.
1. I don't know how you do it. Well, guess what? In all honesty, I don't know how I do it either. I just do. Because really, what other choice do I have? 2. I could never deal with it if my husband was gone for that long. Hmmm...how does hearing how someone else can't deal with it help me to deal with it? 3. Are you scared that something may happen to him while he's there? This one has always really perplexed me. Of course, I'm scared. I wouldn't be human if I wasn't. But being reminded of the fact that something may happen to him doesn't help me out. 4. Do you miss him? Every time I get asked this, I just want to respond "Oh, no, definitely not. I like it when he's gone. It gives me the chance to be all by myself 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Who wouldn't want that?" Of course, I miss him. Wouldn't you miss your husband? 5. I know just how you feel. My husband was on a business trip last month for three days and I just thought I would die. Are you kidding me? First, I barely notice now if my husband is only gone for three days. Second, unless his business trip was to a place where everyone is openly carrying a gun in the street trying to kill him and suicide bombers and roadside bombs are prevalent, its not remotely close to being the same. The only thing I may give you on this one is that you know what it's like to sleep in an empty bed. 6. Do you worry about him cheating on you? Or along the same lines...How can you go without sex for so long? Well, people, it is a little thing called self control. That and a love for my husband and respect for my marriage. Do some people cheat? Sure they do - both here in the states and overseas. But people cheat in civilian marriages too. Being in the military has no bearing on that. 7. How can you sleep at night knowing your husband is a murderer? Won't you be afraid when he comes home? This one sets me off more than any other. No soldier is a murderer. Have they had to kill someone? Quite possibly. But there are a great many soldiers who never have. It's not something they talk about in daily conversation. Regardless of what they do overseas, it does not make them a murderer. They are in a war zone and following orders. I have never once even had an inkling that I should be afraid of my husband because he is a soldier. 8. I'm so sorry your husband had to be deployed. Don't you just hate President Bush? My husband joined the military of his own free will Before 9/11 knowing full well that he would probably be deployed. The President may be the one running the show, but my husband knew what he was getting into when he joined. I'm proud of him and his accomplishments. And I don't discuss politics or religion with anyone. 9. If you truly supported your husband, you would be protesting so..he wouldn't have to deploy again/could be brought home/the war would end. Really? My definition of support must be much different than the definition of support by these people. Supporting my husband means supporting him in what he does and what he believes in. It does not mean disrespecting the men and women who volunteered to defend our country and our rights. If it weren't for them, I wouldn't have the right to protest in the first place. I'm certainly not putting myself in a position where it could be construed as anything other than 100% support for our troops and their families. 10. I can't believe your husband did this to you. Aren't you mad at him? Um, what?! My husband didn't do anything to me. He honors his agreements and he follows the orders of his superiors. There's certainly nothing sad or maddening about having a husband who fulfills his commitments. Don't feel sorry for me. I'm proud of my husband and I completely support him.

My Beliefs

1110081242Christianity_turquoise-white.jpg You scored as Christianity. Your views are most similar to those of Christianity. Do more research on Christianity and possibly consider being baptized and accepting Jesus, if you aren't already Christian. Christianity is the second of the Abrahamic faiths; it follows Judaism and is followed by Islam. It differs in its belief of Jesus, as not a prophet nor historical figure, but as God in human form. The Holy Trinity is the concept that God takes three forms: the Father, the Son (Jesus), and the Holy Ghost (sometimes called Holy Spirit). Jesus taught the idea of instead of seeking revenge, one should love his or her neighbors and enemies. Christians believe that Jesus died on the cross to save humankind and forgive people's sins.

Christianity

67%

Islam

63%

Judaism

42%

Buddhism

38%

Satanism

38%

agnosticism

38%

Hinduism

29%

Paganism

29%

atheism

4%

Which religion is the right one for you? (new version)
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