Eazy Duz It's blog: "Bad VS. Good"

I think, in order to lead a happy life it's not about mean or being nice, or bad or good, it's about being smart. However, I would say that it is smart to try to be nice or good. I used to be pretty bad. I think I was pretty bad until I got smarter and 'grew up.' Now I try to be good most of the time. Why? Simple. If you think about your actions and say to yourself 'would I like what I've just done to happen to me?' and if you think not, then you probably shouldn't have done it. All you have done is increased someone elses misery and you don't get anything good back in return. If you try to be good or nice to most people, generally, they will be nice/good back to you in return. I know this from experience. It's kinda like 'what goes around, comes around.' Because it does. Most 'assholes' and 'dickheads' who think you are stupid, will try to exploit you, but if you are smart, you will know what to do about it. And if we all tried to be a little nicer, the world would be so much of a better place. And I think we'd all be a little happier. That is smart to me. Do we all want to be part of the misery ? Or do we want to try to make the world a little better in our own little way. Seems pretty simple to me, really. Now, I'm off to work for the day.

So it seems to me... Women prefer 'bad boys.' I had this explained to me by one of my female friends, and I quote: "If a bastard likes you, you feel special. If a nice guy likes you, who cares?" This pretty much summed up the female mentality for me, as I have also learned from experience, too many times. I've had male friends tell me I'm too fucking nice to girls too, that I need to, not be mean, but just not so damn nice, cause girls don't like that. I'm sure this doesn't apply to all women, I'm not a misogynist, but I would say most of them. As a 'bad boy,' I think you might have a better quality of life in some respects. However, I think you obtain better friends who you might even be able to trust if you are one of the good guys. You also keep your self-respect and have a better chance of finding real, true love, if it does exist. Maybe, just maybe, one day we can all find 'that one.' Until that day comes, we may all be hurt. But someday, someone will make each and every one of us happy, hopefully. I think you should hang out with who you like, experience all you want to, and just be yourself. That's what I do. People might say I'm too nice, guys and girls, and I may get taken advantage of because of that, but that is who I am and I'm not changing for anyone or anything. I am who I am. Don't let society influence you. Don't let society restrict what you can and can't do, what is socially acceptable or unacceptable to associate with. I guess that's all for now. More to come later. Maybe. I have other thoughts and opinions, this is just one of them.