Age 27, Born and raised a Yankee, graduated to a Damn Yankee when I moved south and stayed. :) One son, age 9, who is my world... Remember: Love is love~ Pain is pain~ but life is life is life~ and that’s the Game. Location: Cary, North Carolina, United States Occupation: Being the only person I can be. ME Favorite Things: Being with my son Xavier, loving him and loving myself, and knowing in my heart that WE are what keep ME going... And of course my Husband Joey a.k.a Casper/Magnito/Samuel Brodie... which ever one you know; I love them all. Hobbies and Interests: I know some day things will go right or wrong. One day I will get what I want or have it all taken away. I will be completely filled with bliss or I will crumble like old stone. Until then I stand firm in what I believe and follow my only guide.. My heart Favorite Quote: beauty fades, but dumb is forever JUDGE JUDY GET OUTA MY HEAD KANDY ! "Hey skuse me ma'am, dguu gotsumma dat der whate sparnklay stuuf ya pudon toppa da meatballsub?" ~~country boy~~ A Little About Me: my life is mine. If you don't like what I do, it's prolly because it wasn’t meant for you, but I am who I am and that’s the only person I can be. Like it or don't--it's not my problem. I am firm in my beliefs, solid with my TRUE friendships, and Loyal like no one you have ever met. The people, who have dared to enter my life, have been rewarded with love or broken with my cold intent after they hurt me. I only trust once. I will give anyone a chance, and one chance to fuck up, but that’s it. Deceived me and you will have to suffer the consequences and repercussions of your actions. My son and I have been through a lot in the past 9 years. We've come a long way, and we are both stronger and happier people because of it. We are not finished with our ventures in life, but together, we will make it. If nothing else, we have each other, and truly, he’s the only man I really NEED in my life. (lil man~ but MY lil MAN) Joey is my gift, one I’m not sure that I deserve, but never the less I am grateful for this presence in my life. I am a writer, published, but not really OUT THERE. People ask what my past regrets are and I say… I have no regrets. NONE! I see life as one big lesson. Each person you meet, every stranger that comes in your life; even if it’s only a brief moment, they bring wisdom; they pass for a reason... Everything you are burdened with is a battle... every battle you defeat is another notch in your belt of conquest, and every conquest fought to the very final end, is Victory... even if you lose. There are a handful of people in your life that troop along side you... they may not be directly at your side, you may not be able to reach out and touch them, or hug them, or carry then when they fall... But they troop none the less. (My troops know who you are and have no doubts) Years can pass without words, but in your heart, you know... they are still a soldja, standing tall for whatever you stand for. Cherish these people. Never take for granted the time they spend on you, or the kind words they have to ease your wounds. Because life... it is a war... A silent war that sounds no guns and the bodies that fall are mere wishes that die... the bullets… only words, and the blood that spills is always called … Pride. ~VCA~ Hold your head up, and know... you are never alone, unless you choose to be. You choose your purpose in life. You choose your path and the bridges you cross or burn. Its not in anyone else’s hands... only yours…