Ants and fleas seem to be the same. But they feel quite different when they catch you. ;)
Don't forget to bring your dog with you if you wanna have a good picnic day. Fleas will take care of it. Just don't care about ants. They'll be there for sure :)
This is metaphore applies for your relatives and selfcalled friends as well. :) Just do the party thing and they'll take care of it...
Have a good day!