Hmmm.. what do i say that i havent already said on all the other sites that just failed me for one reason or another.. guess ill stick to the usual and hope for the best... im 31, going through a divorce.. i have 2 wonderful children, a good job.. on the right carreer path, am emotionally stable and secure, independant and happy. i work long and hard hours, weekends and nights and dont have alot of free time, but i enjoy people, chatting now n then and making new friendsi am physically emotionally strong, confident and describe myself as all around sexy, because if i dont.. who else will!!!???!!! ok, so some may, but thats just cause they havent taken time to gto know me.. and theres way more to a person than whats on the outside.. i like people who actually know and respect this fact.i am ex-military, did 8.5 yrs in the US Army, 6 active, the rest as a reservist. I lifted weights for competition for about 13 yrs.. i am still strong and tough, though i have a little extra weight from child bearing! but .. again.. confident and happy.. will add more later, late for work now!