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Simmer's blog: "abuse"

created on 02/28/2007  |  http://fubar.com/abuse/b59988

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Yes I was an a abusive relationship but I have dealt with it and have rose above what he tried to do to me I am healed yet I am of course scarred but I am stronger than I have ever been and I wont ever let ANYONE EVER treat me even one iota wrong again I am BEAUTIFUL. I am a good person. And I can kick your muther fng butt if anyone messes with me again lol I just want women and men out there to know if you are being abused..get help..and ..get OUT YOU can do it. And there is a better good life just waiting for you so please see the signs and leave before it is too late. Before it escalates to physical abuse. IF ANYONE talks to you direspectfully..calls you names (not in a joking way) if anyone disrepects your wishes and boundaries they are abusing your rights as a person.. If you feel uncomfortable and violated trust your instincts..even if noone sees it or believes it.. YOU are in charge of YOU and thus need to be your own best bodyguard. so take care of YOU luv Simmer
I just read a bullitin on physical abuse and it saddened me and it brought back memories for me of my own experiences and I think we are forgetting the other abuse that stays long after the bruising fades and the broken arms heals...The EMOTIONAL AND Psychological abuse that like a snake slithers quietly and softly into our spirit and once there starts squeezing and crushing it to death until we are left more broken than any physical assault.. How many times have we heard from the abuser You whore you ugly bitch You fucking crazy psycho NOONE will ever love you..you are not worthy.you are nothing..you are lucky to have ME! I am the only one who could ever love your sorry pathetic ass.. NOONE WOULD BELIEVE YOU ..look at you..YOU ARE NOTHING.. until she believes he is right..and even if she ever gathers the strength to leave him and the bruises fade away She is still forever left with the echo of his voice in her ear, in her mind adn in her spirit YOU are nothing..you whore..you bitch..you are nothing The snake has branded himself on her spirit and even with therapy and time she will never ever be the same..SHe may even try to cut herself to cut at the words in her head or worst case scenerio She overdoses to forever shut up the abusive emotional things the abuser subjected her to all those years..and thus she kills herself. this is the true crime The QUIET KILLER EMOTIONAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE KILLS just as much as physical abuse It is the SILENT KILLER I know trust me I know and I have seen it and dealt with the after effects these victims have lived with and dealt with
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