For everyone that has taken the time to get to know something about me and treat me like a person.......... THANK YOU! For those of you who have messaged me asking me to post nudes, to get on cam with them and "play"......... Shame on you!!!!!
How many people realize or care that it's an actual person that you are talking to when you are typing away? That the things you send to that person directly affect them in some way? If you go and look at my photos you should know that I am not going to do anything obscene with you and that I am not going to post nudes for you. If that is something you want to do then great. Its a personal choice and my choice is my own and you have no right to question it or to degrade it.
How many of you have thought that maybe I have things going on in my life and that this is kind of an escape for me? Do any of you realize that I am a grandmother and that my grandson is almost 2 years old? That I have more than three kids? That my ex husband did everything he could to destroy me because he had found someone else and I wasn't ok with it? How many of you know that I don't work and am looking for a job but I can't even do that right now because I sit in a first grade classroom all day every day with my 6 year old son because he is scared that mommy will leave and never come home just like daddy?
I have feelings and I AM a person. Not just some foreign entity typing away to you on a box. Before you message me next time try to remember that. Also try to remember that I can care for you without ever meeting you. I care that you are happy. I like to know that when I sent you something special, silly or funny that it made you laugh or smile. I like to know that just maybe I made someones day a little better and that just maybe someone else would care enough about me to do the same.
If you have taken the time to talk to me and to get to know me then you know who you are and if not then you also know who you are. For those of you that haven't, I don't care if we talk sometimes, just send comments or if after this you block me. What I do care about is that before you send me anything you think about the other PERSON that you are sending something to.
I have tried not to be offensive about people asking me to do things with them or for them as far as the nudity. That is over. Don't ask at all. It's not going to happen and if you do ask I WILL block you.
Thank you to all who understand and for everyone else I am sorry that you don't.
Sincerely,
From the heart,
Christie
