Annelid's blog: "Ramblings,thoughts and assorted stuff"

Ahhh Fubar. I've spent , like what. 4 years with you already? I've had some serious ups and downs (emphasis on the downs) , some amusing times and some serious pucker factor inducing ones as well.

So let the screed begin...

If you the RL to whomever (or RL BF), why the hell would you want to be on fubar? It's a virtual meat market.  When I had a significant other, the LAST place I'd spend any time at is on fu.  Sure I'd log in maybe once or twice a month just to let people I'm friendly with that I'm alive,other than that....why bother?

The about me section. If this is supposed to be a " social networking" site why not take a few minutes to fill out that section?  I love knowing what makes people tick, their likes and dislikes, etc. So other than imbedding a music player that shows the world your bad taste in music, I learn nothing. The blantant whores and the mouth breathers that follow them. You want a bling pack or something similar..here's a novel concept...buy it. I'm not here to feed your narcissistic cravings. And btw photoshop can only do so much honey. Remember the blur tool.

 I've also never "met" such a vaired cross section of people before (via the lounges). Sure a few seem to be decent people but others i pray never spawn.  Serious miscreants, sub morons, knuckle draggers, hooked on phonic rejects, potentional serial killers and icp devotees. I sometimes get a facial twitch reading the banter back and forth in a lounge. And since I'm on a roll, I've never seen such a large group of jaded women. If your that angry why be "social" here? Go to some hipster eco friendly coffee shop and spout off about your self loathing and disdain for men.

Or perhaps when you actually strike up a good (supposedly) conversation via the sb. The witty banter goes back and forth.  And then it comes to abrupt halt. No followups, no - hey I like chatting with you but i have to go. Just....nothing.  Ok.I suppose in a perfect world I'd meet someone here whom I really click with but the idea of that happening is slowly dying like the membership numbers  on myspace. So yes I'll remain a member of this fine site for a time being..but rest assured my heart isn't into it any more. I've been burned, lied too,rip off, had my heart broken and told anything I want to hear. I figure if I want to deal with such drama or the like, I'd spend more time "interacting" with people in RL.  But then again I wouldn't get any points. Oh the downsides of real life.