I have been scanning through a lot of profiles, yes I actually read the profiles, and I noticed that there is a lot of negativity. Your profile is a place to tell a little about you. A place to entice people to want to make friends with you, to meet you. This is supposed to be a meeting place. Granted, you are not going to like everyone you meet, but you dont have to be friends with everyone. I have removed friends that have become annoying, hell I even deleted my profile for a while. But the negative stuff has got to stop. Get over yourself..... If you are a woman, get used to the fact that guys want to see you naked. Some are more respectful about it, but we all want to see the goods. We want to see you live (on cam or in person), most will respect you if you tell them no, but like in life, some will be jerks. GET OVER IT. I think I am fairly respectful when it comes to that stuff, and you can be the nicest person in the world, but when I read a grocery list of negativity in a profile, I DONT WANT TO KNOW YOU!! and then when you top it all off with, "I am really a nice person" now I think to myself LIAR!! so really consider what you put in your profile, if that what you want people you never met to think of you........ and remember this is an adult sight (everyone is over 18) a lot of people want naked, want sex talk, want friends that they can be more open with - this is the internet, let loose a little, have fun!!!!