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SengueDreams's blog: "A males mind..."

created on 10/08/2008  |  http://fubar.com/a-males-mind/b250868
Okay in my last blog I stated how sometimes a man's mind can work and also our "Hidden" Needs when it comes to being cuddly, well this time Im going to touch base on something that we all have experienced, and hate. Break up's, now from countless times of consoling female friends of mine after they were dumped by their boyfriends or what ever their releationship was at the time. Ive come to find that a marjority the process of a woman is this...cry, eat, cry, chick flicks, cry some more, eat, complain, anger....anger....more food....then get really drunk and cry because your drunk and emotional. Now Im not saying that is every female each one is different and react's a certain way, but this is mearly and example of what I always saw. But the same question I got asked usually a couple of days after the break up was this.."TIM he's out and about like he's not even affected DID i mean anything to him....?". Now obviously because im a guy I should have the answer right..well sometimes yes, and sometimes know AGAIN people focus here each one of us are different and respond in a different manner. Well let me give alil insight, guys express the pain of a break up differently, yeah we get depresed, and we fell like shit, sometimes we sit down and just watch tv even though we dont really want to, and sometimes we are taken out by our buddies to bars and clubs and this is mearly a confidence booster to pick up the fact that we were dumped by a girl we really like..yes ladies Men have feelings also..SHOCK HORROR. I know. So if you ever see your ex a couple days after an earthshattering break up, and he's out having a good time, dont worry...it still hurts but this is just how some guys get over being dumped we each have a different way.
Alright, let me dust my little black soapbox and allow me to say a few things. First off, Im male and at times yes Ive been that typical male. That guy at a party that would scout over the women not careing if they were single or not just looking for that girl easy enough to get into her pants, but even then I had a catch, the party was always a friends house, the girls were always female friends of mine that ive known for some time, and their boyfriends were never male friends of mine who usually were wastes of life and space. So I guess maybe im not the typical male in some ways Yes, I enjoy sex ,HELL who doesent, sex is awasome, its a physical experession of lust, want, passion, desire, and in some situations if the two people care about each other..Love. Which now brings up another topic, Relationships...this is the point in a mans life were most of his thoughts are like "WHAT THE FUCK..." reason being this. Guy's it's come to my attention that women have become to affectionately reffer to us as horn dogs and all we care about is pussy. Yes apart of this is true, but you know what Men actually do give a shit. And when we decided to actually throw aside our tough bravdo for a moment and allow A specific female to see a side that not even our best male friends have seen, and im talking about your buddy Jimmy you've known since kindergarten, YEAH he woudlnt even know that shit. Ladies do you want to really know what a guy wants, I mean really deep down wants. in a releationship. We want a woman that everyday will makes us feel like the sexiest, stronger fucker out there, even though we may not be in the best of health. To tell us that we are greater lovers then those in your romance novels and we are all hung like horses. Now this seems to be nothing more then coming of the ego..haha, well honestly that sounds typical dosent, but we just want the feeling that we are wanted, and needed around. That the woman we are with still finds us attractive no matter what we look like. OH and ladies, NEVER never make a man chose between his friends and you..cuase yeah..there's more women out there and Im sure his friends will be willing to help him find another girl. SO yeah..your not that hot. Also, dont think that a guy wants to fuck anything that walks, yes guys will look..hell I look but you know what what im looking at doesnt compaire to who im with. A guy will say another woman is hot or beautiful, but in the back of his mind he's also comparing to the woman he is with and if said male is a decent male..then you know TRUST HIM DAMNIT, he's looking but you know what your the compairason he's useing to define the other woman. YOUR STILL THE HOTTEST ONE IN HIS MIND AND HEART. Also, a man has to be told things sometimes, like if somethings wrong, dont expect him to figure it out we are sometimes linear thinking creatures and we dont like to deal with all that SUBTLE bullshit if we piss you off...TELL US dont stomp around the house and expect us to know what we did. That shit only makes us want to walk out the door and go drink with our friends till you cool your heals. No of course the main thing in any releationship is this..comunication, simple yes..but one of the most unused forms of releationship saving equipment there is, lack of communication can kill a releationship. Girl's, do not discuss your releationship problems with your friends..espically your MALE FRIENDS yeah that's such a slap in the face to us, if there is a problem then talk to the guy, like I said if he is decent he will work through the issue with you. Well that's it for releationships really or mainly i cant think of any other shit to type. So later issues of this blog will be about Break ups comming at you sooner then a late period...This is Tim Saying good by and good night.
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