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My son, he lives w/me, but b4 he went on his 2 wk vacation to my sis in DC, the ex had him for 10 days! he NEVERlet me talk to him even! during his vacation he got to do factime on the ipad! now, when he goes again, i wont talk to him 10 days! so, I have seen him 1/2 a day b4 his vacation, & 2nite will only be another 1/2 day!!! uuuuggghhhh
we had to FORCE him to goto him the 1st time.. LITTERALLY! he was in a ball, crying sooooo hard, we pulled him out ofmy car, I had to PUSH him to his dad, then he BEGGED, PLEADED w/him to let him stay just a few days... the ex, ripped him away, saying "let go now!" (he was holding on to me tight) then forced him into the car, still in a ball crying so hard, forced the seatbelt on him by making him sit up (he was laying on the seat!) The ex never answered my calls! I had to be sneaky, my daughter went over to give him a watch I had for him, his wife saw Aydan asking to get it, so, she let him (ex was not there)
now he is trying to get custody (for the 3rd time)! well, he wants 4 days & me 3!!! uuuggghhh.. my son does NOT want to go.. AT ALL!!!!! did I mention he has a lawyer fighting child support & the custody case too? HE claims Aydan wants to see him more, his nutritional needs & grooming needs are not met, & his school grades suffered due to no help with hw & too many absences.... BS for all! (ok, he was sick alot & other reasons) he had to stay home days when his dad called the cops to see why he kept calling to get him to talk to me, asshole would not listen to my son who begged him in front of cops to STOP asking him to live with him! & to PLZ talk with mom.. the ex IGNORED it all!..
My son threwup for almost 2 days , the counselor said, he better come to school! My son: he was having anxiety attacks for 2 days!& crying days after! he's 9!!!! legal aid here would not take my case because they are way too short staffed.. my ex lawyer is tooooo expensive, & now the ex knows , I have no1
PS... YES, I ALWAYS TRY TO DO EVERYTHING, ANYTHING I CAN TO KEEP THE PEACE. I AM FOREVER TRYING TO GET HIM TO COOPERATE WITH ME FOR OUR SON'S SAKE .. HE ONLY WANTS CONTROL, HIS NEEDS MET, TO HURT ME, EVEN IF THROUGH MY SON . HE CARES NOTHING FOR MY SON'S FEELINGS & THOUGHTS
I AM SOOOOO SORRY THIS IS WRITTEN SO JUMBLED! I JUST HAD TO GET IT OUT & WROTE IT LIKE THIS... PLZ DO NOT COMMENT ABOUT HOW IT LOOKS.. BUT IF YOU HAVE ANY GOOD COMMENTS OR ANY ADVICE.... FEEL FREE TO COMMENT
