I write this with a heavy heart. I want you all to understand a few things..I have closed the Welcome Committee and I am no longer part of the Family. I feel a great need to disassociate myself from the family. Some of you know the reasons why. Some say it makes no sense, others sit in bewilderment..
Some say closing the Welcome lounge does not break a family and I agree . But disloyalty, mistrust, disrespect,deception does!.
Most of the people that became part of our family were my friends. Many met others and the family grew.. Soon we were a few hundred. For the most part it was a really nice family.
Our religion is based on unity, kindness and love. Our motto.
"Harm None"
I Have lived that all of my life. I have been taught not to judge. Not to disrespect or lie. I enter a family who claimed to live by the same rules. The reason I am so well liked and respected is because I do abide by my teachings. I treat all the way I wish to be treated. Now in the midst of the game, the rules change. I don't play that way. Either you are Wiccan or you are not. There is no middle. You believe it , or you do not. Actually, Wiccan has nothing to do with the fundamentals of being human. It is just Wiccan that is the issue here.
Something happened this week that changed everything. I am not getting into the details. It has absolutely nothing to do with the Wiccan priestess. What it has to do with is what spurned out of it. Here I am as the head of the Wiccan ~ Pagan family. I don't know about you , but , in my book, that alone should deserve some respect, wouldn't you say? Well, obviously not.
I have been lied to, lied about, berated, degraded, tested, talked about and NOW after all this they expect me to just forget it all and let bygones be bygones. Sorry lovies. Life doesn't work that way. So I have given this great thought.. I have decided I don't want to be part of this family anymore. I don't want to associate with people like this. Then we have Wiccan's who say, it is ok. just forget it, lets keep peace. That infuriated me more. I am a stickler for principles. Even at peace time, there are rules, and penalties we pay when the rules are broken.
I have my real friends who have helped me through this ordeal. They have stuck by my side through it all. They too have decided they want no parts of it. We have taken Wiccan family off of our names. Many more will follow, just watch. It is a very sad day to see this happen. It has broken my heart! I feel I have no choice in the matter.It was not of my doing.If my family does not back me on something like this, What if something major was to happen. Know not all who joined were wiccan's or pagans. Some added the name to have a feeling of belonging. This is what made it special.. The unity is now gone.. You all will soon see it happen. I call it the trickle effect. Many know exactly what I am talking about. Soon there will be a few more, then another, until what we thought we had is no more. We can't get this back guys. It is too late.
My teacher once taught me the value of penmanship, never to put anything on paper that will incriminate me, that goes for typing too! So the next time you want to play that mighty scholar, think twice about it..
Many have no idea what happened here, others never will. I do though, so do most of my friends.. Soon you will feel the effects and then you will start seeing them..Friendships were lost over this. Before it is over, many more.. Unfortunately in cases like this , sides are taken. You can say they don't and they do....
I say to you my family... I love each of you. I wish you well...All I want now is to be left alone. I know who my real friends are. I will never again ever allow anyone to hurt me as you have..
Brightest Blessings my friends..
Starzhaloz
Sweet Witch...
