I'm a 53 year old land surveyor, living in Sussex, NJ( Small Town, USA - think Norman Rockwell, Currier and Ives and Salvidor Dali on drugs) . I moved back to NJ from the Southwest about five years ago. I'm interested in metaphysics and spirituality and I dabble in photography and sculpture.My religious preferamce is ecclectic, metaphysical, spiritual, shamanistic techno-pagan with a focus on healing and having native American and wiccan tendencies. I've studied various spiritual and metaphysical healing techniques and am a Reiki Master. My political stand varies from issue to issue but in general I'm a non-aligned randite rational constitutional anarchist. Think Thomas Jefferson, Ayn Rand, Adam Smith, Robert Heinlen and the Unabomber. I'm not particularly materialistic, low maintenance, medium mileage. I have brown hair, hazel eyes and I'm on the good looking side of average. I like children, dogs and other small slobbery creatures. I can deal with teenagers without the use of firearms or knives. I was a scout master for 12 years. I used to live in an old fire house and prefer eccentric or bohemian to crazy. I've been told that my eyes can be a bit intense but otherwise my looks are average or a little above. My addictions include coffee, pipe tobacco, books, movies and fishing. These are in no particular order. The above is subject to change without notice. I was raised to treat every woman like a lady. I open doors, hold chairs and coats and bring flowers. I believe that the very best sex starts in the mind and that the best foreplay starts long before you climb into bed. And once in bed it should continue for a long time. And if it's done right, afterplay is just foreplay for the next round.I'm looking for a sexy, sensuous lady of any age. Age is really just a number. It's what goes on in a persons head that matters. Size isn't that important. I do tend to prefer chubby/curvy/voluptuous women.I don't have any use for liars, psychos, game players and drama queens.Though I'm ultimately looking for a long term relationship I'm open to casual, discrete or whatever you have in mind.