I grew up in central california. I moved around quiet a bit in my youth and somehow always ended up in Fresno. I moved from Fresno, Ca. to Oklahoma about 6 years ago with my ex-husband. Whom after living with as man and wife I had, had enough and paid the bills and moved out. I remained in Oklahoma despite missing my friends and family because my health had done a 360 and instead of feeling like I was dying I started living again. Then I met Gary. At first I was all about playing the field and just dating a few guys nothing serious. Then I just one day noticed how wonderful he was and how loving he was to everyone. I figured that I had better keep this one around. I couldn't help but fall for him despite the nickname he insisted on for me. Now he and I have been together for about 4-5 years and through thick and thin we are still happy and in love.